Disclaimer

That which is contained within these articles is based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow, what I perceive as the truth will inevitably change and as a result of this - parts of these articles may not reflect my current outlook.

ABUSE

• Emotional Abuse: The Invisible Killer

• Abuse: What Causes Abuse?

• Abusive Parents: Why Do Some Parents Abuse Their Children?

• Invalidation: The Abused Childs Greatest Pain

• Controlling Mothers: Why Are Some Mothers Controlling?

• Family: Are Family A Gift Or A Curse?

• Abusive Parents: Why Do They Deny What Happened?

• Abused Children: Why Do Abused Children Deny What Happened?

• Emotionally Needy Parents: What Are Emotionally Needy Parents?

• Abused Children: Do Abused Children Need To Forgive Their Parents?

• Abuse: From One Generation To Another

• Self Abuse: What Is Self Abuse?

• Bullying: Why Do Some People Bully Others?

• Abusive Behaviour: Why Do People Put Up With Abusive Behaviour?

• Abuse: Why Do Some People Abuse Others?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Stay In Abusive Relationships?

• Child Abuse: Why Has Child Abuse Gone On For So Long?

• Abusive Relationships: Why Does Abuse Make People Feel Uncertain?

• Abusive Mothers: Why Are Some Mothers Abusive?

• Abused Children: Why Do They Have Boundary Problems?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Go Back To Abusive Relationships?

• Child Abuse: What Happens When A Child Is Invalidated?

• Abuse: Can Trapped Emotions Cause Abusive Behaviour?

• Self Harm: Can Trapped Emotions Cause Self Harm?

• Child Abuse: Can Trapped Emotions Stop Someone From Healing From Child Abuse?

• Emotional Neglect: From One Generation To Another

• Child Abuse: Can Validation Allow Someone To Heal From Child Abuse?

• Abusive Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Create A Tolerance For Abuse?

• Child Abuse: Is There Something Wrong With People Who Are Abused As Children?

• Child Abuse: Is Anger An Important Part Of Healing From Child Abuse?

• Bullying: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Be Bullied?

• Verbally Abusive Mothers: What Can Happen When Someone Is Verbally Abused By Their Mother?

• Child Abuse: Is Feeling Safe An Important Part Of Healing From Child Abuse?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Feel Comfortable With Abuse?

• Child Abuse: Why Are Some People Not Believed When They Talk About Being Abused?

• Toxic Shame: From One Generation To Another

• Self Harm: Can Toxic Shame Lead To Self Harm?

• Abuse: Have You Gone From Being A Victim To Being A Perpetrator?

• Emotionally Unavailable Mother: What Are The Consequences Of Having An Emotionally Unavailable Mother?

• Abuse: Is Grieving Unmet Childhood Needs An Important Part Of Ending The Cycle Of Abuse?

• Child Abuse: Why Do Abused Children Idealise Their Parents?

• Abuse: Why Do Some People Always Put Others Down?

• Critical: Can Toxic Shame Cause Someone To Be Critical Of Others?

• Control: Do Some People Use Shame To Control Other People?

• Criticising Others: Do Some People Criticise Others To Make Themselves Feel Better?

• Child Abuse: Do Some Parents Try To Live Their Lives Through Their Children?

• Child Abuse: Can A Parents Fear Of Being Abandoned Cause Them To Make Their Children Dependent?​

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Suffer If They Don’t Face What Happened When They Were Younger?

• Child Abuse: Should Someone Expect Other People To Empathise Them If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Does Someone Need To Move On If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Relationships: Can Someone End Up With People They’re Not Attracted To If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Relationships: Can Someone Put Up With Verbal Abuse When They Feel Worthless?

• Control: Can You Control People By Telling Them That Nothing Is Their Fault?

• Child Abuse: Why Do Some People Disown Their Parents?

• Child Abuse: Do Some People Need To Live In Denial In Order To Get On With Their Parents?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Have One Good Parent And One Bad Parent?

• Child Abuse: Can Toxic Shame Stop Someone Who Was Abused As A Child From Getting The Help That They Need?

• Child Abuse: Why Do Abusive Parents Always Talk About How Good Other Children Are?

• Child Abuse: Do Some People Go From Being Abused By Their Parents To Abusing Their Parents?

• Child Abuse: Why Would Someone Only Say Nice Things About Their Parents After They Have Passed on?

• Child Abuse: Do Parents Lack Empathy When They Deny What Happened?

• Child Abuse: How Can Someone Be Compassionate Towards The People Who Abused Them?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Feel More At Peace When They No Longer Need Anything From The People Who Abused Them?

• Child Abuse: How Can Someone Develop A Sense Of Safety And Security After Being Abused?

• Child Abuse: Is It A Surprise That Some Parents Deny They Were Abusive?

• Child Abuse: Does Child Abuse Cause Mental And Emotional Problems?

• Child Abuse: Why Would Someone Expect Their Parent/s To Give Them What They Couldn't Give Them As A Child?

• Energetic Abuse: Can Someone Energetically Abuse Another Person?

• Child Abuse: Did Your Parents Make Out That You Were Perfect?

• Child Abuse: Is Child Abuse A Form Of Indirect Revenge?

• Child Abuse: Does Someone Need To Develop An Adult Self In Order To Move On From Child Abuse?

• Child Abuse: What Can Happen If Someone Was Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: How Can Someone Move On If They Have An Emotionally Unavailable Parent?

• Child Abuse: Is It Normal For Someone To Feel Guilty After Their Abusive Parent Passes On?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Aggression? 

• Child Abuse: Why Is It Hard For Someone To Heal From Child Abuse?

• Child Abuse: Is It Clear To See That Abusive Parents Were Also Abused By Their Parents?

• Child Abuse: Is Child Abuse One Of The Reasons Why So Many People Have Mental And Emotional Problems?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Affect Someone’s Life Even If They Can’t Remember What Happened?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Feel Worthless?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Stop Someone From Developing Self-Awareness?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Their Survival If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About The Opposite Sex If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Being Seen If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Intimacy If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Their Needs If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Being Assertive If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Saying ‘No’ If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Can Happen If Someone Was Physically Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Body?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Get Angry At The Wrong People If They Don’t Get Angry At Their Parents?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Become A Human Doing?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Have A Fear of Being Seen?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Set Someone Up To Believe That It Is Not Safe Enough For Them To Exist?

• Child Abuse: Can Affirmations Help Someone If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone to Live in Freeze Mode As An Adult?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Live In Fight Mode As An Adult?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Live In Different Survival Modes If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Neglect: What Can Happen If Someone Was Neglected As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Dissociate As An Adult?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Their Own Existence If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Neglect: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To Feel Worthless?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Their Own Worth If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Other People If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About Their True-Self If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Was Someone Being Punished If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Take Away Someone’s Will To Live?

• Neglect: What Beliefs Can Someone Have If They Were Neglected As A Child?

•  Neglect: Can Someone Carry A Lot Of Emotional Pain If They Were Neglected As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Believe That They Always Need To Be On Guard If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: What Can Happen If Someone Was Verbally Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Hate Themselves If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Hide Themselves?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Have Trouble Moving Forward If They Were Abused As A Child? 

• Child Abuse: Can Someone End Up Being Emotionally Disconnected If They Were Abused As A Child? 

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Feel As Though Death Is Imminent If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone’s Need For Validation Stop Them From Being Able To Heal From Child Abuse?

• Child Abuse: Does Someone Need To Forgive Themselves If They Were Abused As A Child? 

• Child Abuse: What Expectations Can Someone Have If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Why Do Abusive Parents Deny What Happened?

• ​Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Set Someone Up To Believe That They Don’t Deserve To Exist?

• Child Abuse: What Can Someone Believe If They Were Physically Abused As A Child?

​• Child Abuse: Can Someone’s Need To Protect Their Parents Stop Them From Being Able To Heal From Child Abuse?

• Child Abuse: Is It Normal For Someone To Idealise One Parent And To Demonise The Other?

• Child Abuse: Why Can It Be Hard For Someone To Open Up About Being Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Are Some Parents Too Emotionally Immature To Show Remorse?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Believe That They Deserve To Suffer If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Child Abuse: Does Low Self-Worth Get Past From One Generation To Another?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Believe That They Don’t Deserve To Receive Anything If They Were Abused As A Child? 

• Neglect: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To Be Developmentally Stunted?

• Neglect: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To See Themselves As An Extension Others? 

• Neglect: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Anger?

• Neglect: Can Childhood Neglect Stop Someone From Being Able To Express Their True-Self?

• Child Abuse: Does Someone Need To ‘Stop Blaming Their Parents’ If They Were Abused?

• Needs: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To Hide Their Needs?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Believe That They Are Bad?

• Self-Ownership: Can Child Abuse Stop Someone From Developing A Sense Of Sovereignty?

• Self-Ownership: What Can Happen If Someone Was Treated Like An Object During Their Early Years?

• Child Abuse: Why Would A Parent Deny That They Were Abusive?

• True Self: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone’s True Self To Be Imprisoned By Their False Self?

• Boundaries: Can Someone Build Walls Around Themselves If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Emotionally Shut Down: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Be Emotionally Shut Down? 

• Inner Security: Can Child Abuse Stop Someone From Developing Inner Security?

• Self Worth: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Feel Totally Worthless?

• Child Abuse: What Can Happen If Someone Was Regularly Humiliated During Their Childhood?

• Self-Worth: Can Someone Find It Hard To Accept That They Have Inherent Worth If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Self-Worth: Can Someone Feel Worthless If They Were Neglected As A Child? 

• Boundaries: Can Someone Find It Hard To Say No If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Receiving: Can Someone Find It Hard to Receive If They Had A Manipulative Parent?

• Needs: Can Someone See Their Needs As A Burden If They Were Neglected During Their Early Years?

• Needs: Can Someone Feel Guilty For Putting Their Needs First If They Had A Manipulative Parent?

• Submissive: Can Someone Be Submissive If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Support: Can Someone Have Trouble Being Supported If They Were Neglected As A Child?

• Sense Of Safety: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Believe That It Is Not Safe Enough For Them To Exist?

• Child Abuse: Can A Parent Be Too Disordered To Acknowledge That They Were Abusive?

• Neglect: Can Childhood Neglect Take Away Someone’s Will To Live?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Embody Their Parents Shadow If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Relationships: Why Can’t Someone Just Leave An Abusive Relationship?

• Child Abuse: Does Someone Need To Realise Their Abusive Parents Were Deeply Wounded In Order To Move Forward?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Embody Their Parents Toxic shame If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Hopeless: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To Feel Hopeless?

​​• Sense Of Deserving: Can Child Abuse Stop Someone From Developing A Sense Of Deserving?

• Child Abuse: Is Someone Engaging In Repetition Compulsion If They Are Looking For Their Parents To Acknowledge They Were Abusive?

• Child Abuse: Can Someone Feel As Though They Are Betraying Their Parents If They Talk About Their Abuse?

• Self-Hate: Can Someone Hate Themselves If They Were Abused As A Child?

• Hopeless: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Feel Hopeless?

• True Self: Can Child Abuse Give Someone The Need To Hide Themselves?

• Negative Feelings: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Be Attached To ‘Negative’ Feelings?

• Child Abuse: Is It A Good Idea For Someone To Find Out About Their Parents Childhood If They Abused As A Child?

• Early Deprivation: Can A Parents Inability To Love Go Back Many Generations?

• Past Life: Did Someone’s Past Life Play A Part In Why They Were Abused As A Child?

​• Unlovable: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To Feel Unlovable?

​• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Have A Fear Of Life?

​• Child Abuse: Can Someone Move On From An Abusive Childhood If They Just Forgive Their Parents?

​• Self-Blame: Can Someone Have The Tendency To Engage In Self Blame If They Were Abused As A Child?

​• Child Abuse: Can Someone Isolate Themselves If They Were Abused As A Child?

​• Child Abuse: Does Someone Have The Right To Hurt Their Parents If They Were Abused By Them?

• Sense Of Safety: Can Child Abuse Stop Someone From Developing A Sense Of Safety?

• Personal Reality: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Lose Touch With Their Personal Reality?

• Emotionally Shut-Down: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Emotionally Shut-Down Around Others?

• Child Abuse: Is Someone Engaging In Repetition Compulsion If They Are Looking For Their Abusive Parents To See Them?

• Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone See Themselves As An Extension Of Others?