''The site was found by accident, and it is exactly what I need at this time of my life. Sometimes we are so close to the trees we can not see the forest. Actually I was not expecting to get fast and personal attention. You were very prompt in replying with point on what I needed. The motivational information is right on. I am grateful I found this site and of course will check with it often. THANK YOU!''
Kenneth Franklin Priddy
''Lady's and gentleman, I wish to bestow the most authentic and deserving accolades upon Oliver JR Cooper. Oliver's writings are a breeding ground for hope , therapy , wisdom , compassion , empathy and encouragement . Oliver possesses a unique intrinsic gift of writing with scholarly efficacy. This gentleman has blessed my life and enriched it with his knowledge and humility. I would recommend, that anyone with relationship issues, or depression to read Oliver's work and purchase his materials as their lives will be blessed. I fully endorse this gentleman's brilliant contributions towards the well of world humanity. Oliver's sensitive , compassionate approach blesses lives.''
''Hello Oliver, I came across your web page as a result of you posting a comment on my blog, "Thinking Matters". I just looked at your site and had to let you know how impressed I am with your insight and writing!! Keep up the good work-for you are certainly not "another brick in the wall". Really enjoyed reading your articles.'' Paula Durlofsky, PH.D. www.drpauladurlofsky.com
''I'm thrilled to have Oliver J R Cooper offering his advice and insight as a Contributing Editor. His articles have had over 85,000 click through's... no small feat. His perspective on love, relationships, self-identity and authenticity are amazing. Oliver provides to-the-point, real life guidance, and answers to today's essential questions.''
''Behaviour: What Causes Reactive Behaviour? Is a great article and one that I can really relate to. So much clarity in his writing which I would recommend to anyone who feels certain aspects of their lives are not normal in a sense. Thanks Oliver, keep up the great work, there's a star in the making here! Take note.''
''Your articles are well written, concise and so helpful. I can see more clearly where to dig and understand why. Thanks!''
Linda Dee Dalloul
''Hi Oliver, I just happened to stumble across your Facebook page and now I’m your avid follower. I’ve read through some of your writings and I cannot believe the truth in the stuff you write. Whilst reading, I see myself in certain scenarios and the faults I possess when in a relationship. Your blogs and posts really inspire me and I’m sure a lot of people too. Thank you for the encouragement & for the light you shed on certain aspects of relationships. THANK YOU!!'' Natalie Abrahams
''Hi Oliver, I came across this article a year ago (Abusive Parents: Why Do They Deny What Happened?), and it changed my life. It opened up new things to me, I thought deeply about every single thing, and traced things in my mind and worked things out, and even came up with additional theories of my own.
I am out of the cycle of abuse now (I think - I am away from the abusers anyway) and my life is starting to make sense, why I'm here, that I was RIGHT all along, about the abuse, what it was doing to me, that I didn't "bring it on myself", everything. I have read a lot of things, but this right here, is what really got my brain flowing more than anything. Thank you, you have saved a life :)''
''Oliver's no nonsense approach to life's painful and often debilitating taboo subjects is a breath of fresh air. I would highly recommend his deeply insightful articles to those looking for relief from personal emotional suffering and professionals alike. ''
Karen. - Bacp Accredited Counsellor
''I just recently began reading Oliver's writing after a friend on twitter shared. He is very wise and insightful. I appreciate that he is able to convey complex messages in a way that is easily understandable and concise. His writing is bringing clarity to the situations I have been through and will hopefully help me to live a happier life in the future. He was also very kind and genuinely cares. It has been a gift to find his articles! ''
''Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Unlovable? Is definitely the most insightful article that I can relate to that I have ever read. Thank you so much, how do you know all of this. No one that I have had therapy with has ever been able to really understand me. Life has been so difficult, this article makes me tear up, I really don't know how to thank you. Wish it could transform me though, but I am working on it everyday, but time is limited. So many regrets, so many. Thank you again, keep up the great work that you are doing. I will look forward to your posts on Tony's blog and your articles.''
''Oliver, I am a big fan of soul searching and self awareness. I came across your page while looking for some intellectual topic. I must say your articles are well written and easy to understand. And I had to let you know how grateful I was to find your site. I will keep coming back to read more. Thanks!''
''You explain very complex processes in such easy-to-understand and non threatening ways. It's amazing. I'm a new fan!! Thank you''
''I reached out to Oliver after finding his website while I was researching information for my photography book, a memoir depicting an abusive family and ultimate mental collapse of my mother. I had asked Oliver to write a foreword for this book, and he had responded promptly and agreed to do the work after reviewing my material. What is unique about Oliver's writings, what had drawn me to him to write my foreword, is his ability to write from the heart. Oliver writes without drama, that is to say he writes from a place of fact and understanding for how things are; yet he maintains a certain level of care to deliver his information with thoughtfulness. By doing so Oliver is able to remove a layer of confusion while simultaneously creating a safe space. He does not let his readers down with cold hard facts, but brings them in for a metaphorical hug as the delusions melt away into understanding.''
''Hi Oliver. I would like to thank you for your articles. I am really thankful to have come across your writings about relationship. These articles: "Why do some women attract controlling men?" and "Why are some men controlling?” have helped me to see from a different perspective and deepen my understandings to reflect on my situation. I am very thankful that I have got myself out of a controlling relationship. Right now, I am comfortable and happy being the person I've become. From the bottom of my heart, thank you Oliver!''