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RECOMMENDED READING

Abuse
  • Alice Miller - Breaking Down The Wall Of Silence: To Join the Waiting Child
  • Alice Miller - The Body Never Lies: The Lingering Effects of Hurtful Parenting
  • Alice Miller - Banished Knowledge: Facing Childhood Injuries
  • Alice Miller - The Truth Will Set You Free
  • Alice Miller - The Drama of Being a Child 

Boundaries
  • Charles L. Whitfield -  Boundaries and Relationships: Knowing, Protecting and Enjoying the Self
  • Henry Cloud and John Townsend - Boundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say No, To Take Control of Your Life

Criritcal Thinking
  • Rolf Dobelli - The Art of Thinking Clearly

Childhood Development
  • Sue Gerhardt -  Why Love Matters: How Affection Shapes a Baby's Brain
  • Oliver James -  They F*** You Up: How to Survive Family Life 

Emotional Intelligence
  • Daniel Goleman - Emotional Intelligence
  • Daniel Goleman - Social Intelligence
  • Daniel Goleman And The Dalai Lama - Destructive Emotions

Healing
  • Jasmin Lee Cori - The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
  • Jasmin Lee Cori - Healing from Trauma: A Survivor's Guide to Understanding Your Symptoms and Reclaiming Your Life
  • John Bradshaw - Home Coming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child
  • John Bradshaw - Healing the Shame That Binds You 
  • John Bradshaw - Family Secrets
  • Beverly Engel - Healing Your Emotional Self: A Powerful Program to Help You Raise Your Self-esteem, Quiet Your Inner Critic, and Overcome Your Shame 
  • David Richo -  When the Past Is Present: Healing the Emotional Wounds That Sabotage Our Relationships
  • David Richo - The Power Of Coincidence
  • Louise L. Hay -  You can Heal Your Life
  • Susan Forward - Toxic Parents; Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life
  • Susan Forward - Mothers Who Can't Love
  • Susan Forward - Obsessive Love
  • Carolyn Myss - Why People Dont Heal 
  • Kenneth M. Adams - Silently Seduced
  • Kenneth M. Adams - When He's Married to Mom: How to Help Mother-Enmeshed Men Open Their Hearts to True Love and
  • Pia Mellody - Facing Codependence
  • Melody Beattie - Codependent No More
  • Patrick J Carnes - The Betrayal Bond
  • Patrick Carnes -  Sexual Anorexia
  • Kimberlee Roth and Freda B. Friedman - Surviving a Borderline Parent
  • Terri Apter - Difficult Mothers: Understanding and Overcoming Their Power
  • Patricia Love - Emotional Incest Syndrome: What To Do When A Parents Love Rules Your life
  • Jonice Webb - Running On Empty
  • Karyl McBride - Will I Ever Be Good Enough?: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
  • Conrad W. Baars, Anna A. Terruwe - Healing the Unaffirmed: Recognizing Emotional Deprivation Disorder
  • Conrad W. Baars - Born Only Once
  • Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman & Robert M. Pressman  - The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment
  • Tian Dayton - Heartwounds
  • Tian Dayton - Emotional Sobriety
  • Laurence Heller & Aline LaPierre - Healing Developmental Trauma: How Early Trauma Affects Self-Regulation, Self-Image, and the Capacity for Relationship
  • Ronald Potter-Efron & Patrcia Potter-Efron -  Letting Go Of Shame
  • Michael Gurian - Mothers, Sons and Lovers: How a Man's Relationship with His Mother Affects the Rest of His Life
  • Susan Carrell - Escaping Toxic Guilt 
  • Eliana Gil - Outgrowing The Pain 
  • John Friel and Linda Friel - Adult Children: Secrets of Dysfunctional Families
  • Charles L. Whitfield - Healing the Child Within
  • Alan D. Wolfelt - Understanding Your Grief: Ten Essential Touchstones for Finding Hope and Healing Your Heart
  • Indra Torsten Preiss - Family Constellations Revealed: Hellinger's Family and other Constellations Revealed
  • Elan Golomb - Trapped In The Mirror
  • Robert Augustus Masters - Spiritual Bypassing: When Spirituality Disconnects Us from What Really Matters
  • Jerold J. Kreisman and Hal Straus - I Hate You-Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
  • DR Margaret Reinhold - How To Survive In Spite Of Your Parents
  • Dan Neuharth - If You Had Controlling Parents: How to Make Peace with Your Past and Take Your Place in the World
  • Anna Zanardi Cappon - Mummy's Boys Daddy's Girls
  • R.D. Laing - The Divided Self: An Existential Study in Sanity and Madness
  • Arthur Janov - The Feeling Child
  • Arthur Janov - Why You Get Sick, How You Get Well: The Healing Power of Feelings
  • Arthur Janov - The Primal Revolution: Toward a Real World​
  • Masa Aiba Goetz - My Father, My Self: Understanding Dad's Influence on Your Life
  • David Stafford & Liz Hodgkinson - Codependency
  • Susan Peabody - Addiction to Love
  • Craig Nakken - The Addictive Personality ​

Mens Psychology
  • Robert Glover - No More Mr Nice Guy
  • Guy Corneau - Absent Fathers, Lost Sons: The Search for Masculine Identity
  • David H. Wagner - Backbone: The Modern Man's Ultimate Guide to Purpose, Passion and Power
  • Steve Biddulph - Manhood

Relationships
  • Osho - Intimacy
  • Harville Hendrix - Keeping the Love You Find 
  • John Powell -  Why Am I Afraid to Tell You Who I Am? 
  • John Gray - What You Can Feel, You Can Heal
  • Pia Mellody - Facing Love Addiction
  • Pia Mellody - Intimacy Factor: The Ground Rules for Overcoming the Obstacles to Truth, Respect, and Lasting Love
  • David Richo -  How To Be An Adult In Relationships
  • Barry K. Weinhold and Janae B. Weinhold - The Flight From Intimacy 
  • Barry K. Weinhold and Janae B. Weinhold  - Breaking Free from the Co-dependency Trap
  • Marshall B. Rosenberg - Speak Peace in a World of Conflict: What You Say Next Will Change Your World
  • Michael Bond - The Power Of Others
  • Peter Trachtenberg - The Casanova Complex
  • Susan Jeffers - Dare To Connect: How to create confidence, trust and loving relationships​

Self Realisation
  • Alan Watts - The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are
  • Alan Watts -  The Wisdom of Insecurity: A Message for an Age of Anxiety
  • M.Scott Peck - The Road Less Travelled
  • M.Scott Peck - The Road Less Travelled And Beyond
  • Osho - Freedom
  • Osho - Intelligence
  • Osho - Tantra
  • Osho - Courage
  • Osho - Creativity
  • J Krishnamurti - Freedom From The Known
  • The Dalai Lama -  The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living
  • The Dalai Lama  - How To Practise: The Way to a Meaningful Life
  • Don Miguel Ruiz - The Four Agreements: Practical Guide to Personal Freedom 
  • Don Miguel Ruiz - The Mastery Of Love 
  • Don Miguel Ruiz - The Voice Of Knowledge
  • Rob Yeung - Personality: How To Unleash Your Hidden Strengths
  • John C Parkin - F**k It: The Ultimate Spiritual Way
  • Joseph Murphy - The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind
  • Oliver James - Affluenza
  • Srikumar Rao - Are You Ready to Succeed?
  • David Richo - How To Be An Adult
  • Stephen Briers - Psychobabble 
  • Damian Hughes - Change
  • Julian Baggini and Antonia Macaro - The Shrink And The Sage
  • Stephen Grosz - Examined Life: How We Lose and Find Ourselves
  • Jean Shinoda Bolen - The Tao of Psychology: Synchronicity and the Self
  • Susan Jeffers - Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway
  • Susan Jeffers - End the Struggle and Dance with Life
  • Anthony Storr - The Integrity of the Personality
  • Anthony Storr - Feet of Clay
  • Rob Yeung - Personality: How to Unleash Your Hidden Strengths
  • John C. Parkin - F**k It: The Ultimate Spiritual Way
  • Joseph Burgo Ph.D. - Why Do I Do That?
  • Stuart Wilde - Silent Power
  • Stuart Wilde - The Little Money Bible 
  • Serge Kahili King - Mastering Your Hidden Self: A Guide to the Huna Way
  • Serge Kahili King - Kahuna Healing
  • Paul Mckenna - Change Your Life in Seven Days
  • Paul Mckenna - The 3 Things That Will Change Your Destiny Today!​
  • Eva Pierrakos - The Pathwork of Self-Transformation

The Ego Mind

  • Dov Baron - Don't Read This...Your Ego Won't Like It!



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