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Disclaimer

That which is contained within these articles is based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow, what I perceive as the truth will inevitably change and as a result of this - parts of these articles may not reflect my current outlook.


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• Friends: My Interpretation of What They Are

• Dysfunctional Relationships: Why Do We Attract Them?

• Dysfunctional Love: What Is Dysfunctional Love?

• Conditional Love: What Is Conditional Love?

• Relationships: The Healing Power Of Relationships

• Relationships: What Roles Are We Playing In Our Relationships?

• Intimacy: What Causes The Fear Of Intimacy?

• Relationships: What Is The Purpose Of A Relationship?

• Love Or Control: What Would You Choose?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Cheat?

• Relationships: What Is Our Most Important Relationship?


• Attachment: What Are Attachment Problems?

• Relationships: What Is A Relationship Triangle?

• Relationships: Where Do Our Relationship Models Come From?

• Relationships: Are Patterns Running Our Relationships?

• Abandonment: Why Do Some People Fear Abandonment?

• Trust: Why Do Some People Find It Hard To Trust?

• Relationships: What Causes One Sided Relationships?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Fear Losing Themselves In Relationships?

• Attraction: What Do People Find Attractive?

• Relationships: Can Relationships Be Unconditional?

• Relationships: What Does Love Mean To You?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Play Games In Relationships?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Sabotage Healthy Relationships?

•  Intimacy: What Does Intimacy Mean To You?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Rescue Others?

• Relationships: Are Boundaries Important In Intimate Relationships?

• Relationships: What Does A Relationship Mean To You?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Change Others?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Attract People Who Are Unavailable?

• Relationships: Is It Important To Grieve The End Of A Relationship?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Fix Others?

• Relationships: What Are Your Relationships Mirroring Back To You?

• Relationships: Should Relationships Be Easy?

• Relationships: Do We See Others As We Want Them To Be?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Unlovable?

• Relationships: What Do People's Friends Reveal About Them?

• Intimacy: Can Emotional Repression Sabotage Intimacy?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Unattractive When A Relationship Ends?

• Relationships: Is It Important To Understand The Opposite Sex?

• Relationships: Why Do Some Breakups Hurt So Much?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Become Obsessed With Their Ex?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Attracted To people Who Are Self Centered?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Clingy In Relationships?

• Relationships: Do Actions Speak Louder Than Words?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Emotionally Unavailable?

• Relationships: Can Vulnerability Lead To Deeper Relationships?

•  Attraction: Can Trapped Emotions Define Who We Are Attracted To?

• Relationships: Can Our Internal Representations Of People Define How They Respond To Us?

• Listening: Do You Listen With Your Head Or Heart?

• Relationships: Do Some People Have Relationships To Avoid Themselves?

• Relationships: Do Some People like Being Controlled?

• Sex: Do Some People Have Sex To Avoid Themselves?

• Relationships: Can Sex Create The Illusion Of Love?

• Relationships: Are Rebound Relationships A Bad Idea?

• Attraction: Are We Attracted To What Is Familiar?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Attract People Who Are Needy?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Stop Others From Showing Their Emotions?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Smothered In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Do Some People Have Sex To Experience Love?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Feel Abandoned?

• Relationships: What Causes Jealousy?

• Relationships: Can Our Friends Keep Us Stuck?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Fear Being Alone?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Fear That Their Partner Will Cheat?

• Relationships: Can We Ever Truly Know Anyone?

• Relationships: What Two Needs Can Define How Someone Behaves In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Can Our Past Relationships Affect Our Present Relationship?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Find It Hard To Trust Others?

• Relationships: Is Looking Good Enough To Attract The Perfect Partner?

• Relationships: Can Trapped Emotions Cause Painful Relationships?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People End Up With People There Not Attracted To?

• Relationships: Do Your Relationships Reflect Your Childhood?

• Relationships: Is Feeling Safe An Important Part Of Forming An Emotional Connection?

• Relationships: Are We Defined By The Internal Representations That Other People Have Of Us?

• Relationships: What Can Sabotage Adult To Adult Relationships?

• Relationships: Are We Attracted To Our Own Projections?

• Relationships: How Can Someone Know When A Relationship Is Over?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Look For love In All The Wrong Places?

• Relationships: Where Does Someone’s Idea Of The Perfect Partner Come From?

• Relationships: How Can Someone Know If Their Relationships Are Dysfunctional?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Need Others To Tell Them What To Do?

• Relationships: Can Environmental Factors Stop Someone From Moving On From A Breakup?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People It Find It Hard To Receive Love?

• Relationships: What Causes Enmeshed Relationships?

• Relationships: Does Rescuing Others Keep Them Stuck?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Need To Look Strong?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Try To Impress The Opposite Sex?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Fear The Opposite Sex?

• Human Contact: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Fear Human Contact?

• Relationships: Does Our Childhood Define Our Expectations Of The Opposite Sex?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Get Back With Their Ex?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Repeat Unhealthy Relationship Patterns?

• Abandonment: Does The Fear Of Being Abandoned Control Your Life?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Abandoned When A Relationship Ends?

• Relationships: What Causes Caretaking Behaviour?

• Relationships: Why Does 'Treat Them Mean And Keep Them Keen' Work?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Attract People Who Can't Love Them?

• Relationships: What Does It Mean When Someone Says They Are Too Busy?

• Relationships: Why Can't Some People Maintain Eye Contact?

• Relationships: What Happens When Someone Is Always Told What To Do?

• Relationships: Can Embracing Our Pain Lead To Healthier Relationships?

• Relationships: Do You Expect Other Adults To Fulfil Your Unmet Childhood Needs?

• Relationships: Do You Expect Other People To Accept You Or Reject You?

• Abandonment: Does The Fear Of Being Abandoned Cause You To Please Others?

• Intimacy: Do Some People’s Childhoods Set Them Up To Fear Intimacy?

• Relationships: Do You Always Blame Other People For Your Relationship Problems?

• Relationships: Can Toxic Shame Cause Someone To Believe They’re Not Enough For The Opposite Sex?

• Smothered Or Abandoned: Do You Alternate Between Feeling Smothered And Abandoned?

• Relationships: Can Toxic Shame Make Someone Feel Unlovable?

• Relationship: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Believe That People Can't Be Trusted?

• 
Relationships: Is Grieving Our Unmet Childhood Needs An Important Part Of Having Healthy Relationships?


• Relationships: Is The Fear Of Being Abandoned Causing You To Put Up With People Who Are Controlling?

• Relationships: Do Your Friends Bring Out The Best In You?

• Emotional Awareness: Is Emotional Awareness An Important Part Of Taking Responsibility For How We  Feel In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Are People Entitled To Get Revenge On Their Ex?

• Relationships: Is Grieving Unmet Childhood Needs An Important Part Of Letting Of The Fear Of Abandonment?

• Relationships: Is Grieving Our Unmet Childhood Needs An Important Part of Attracting People Who Are Are Available?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Have Affairs?

• Relationships: Is The Fear Of Being Abandoned Defining Who You Are Attracted To?

• Intimacy: Can Toxic Shame Cause Someone To Fear Intimacy?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Do Everything By Themselves?

• Relationships: Is The Fear Of Abandonment Causing You To Get Attached Too Soon?

• Relationships: Does The Fear Of Abandonment Stop You From Speaking Up?

• Relationships: Do Your Friends Accept You For Who You Are Or For What You Do?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Empty When They Are Not In A Relationship?

• Intimacy: Can Trapped Grief Stop Someone From Being Able To Experience Intimacy?

• Relationships: Do People Know When Their Partners Are Having An Affair?

• Intimacy: Can Embracing Our Pain Lead To Greater Levels Of Intimacy?

• Relationships: Does The Fear Of Abandonment Stop You From Leaving A Relationship?

• Relationships: Is Needing Someone The Same As Loving Them?

• Relationships: Does The Fear Of Abandonment Cause You To Go Back To A Relationship?

• Relationships: Does The Fear Of Abandonment Cause You To Abandon Yourself?

• Relationships: Is Being Responsive To Another Person’s Self-Disclosure An Important Part Of A Relationship?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Find It Hard To Be Serious?

• Relationships: Can Toxic Shame Make Someone Feel Unattractive?

• Relationships: Do You Expect The Same Person To Meet All Your Needs?

• Relationships: Can Trapped Grief Make Breakups Harder To Handle?

• Relationships: Can Toxic Shame Make Someone Feel Lonely?

• Relationships: Can Trapped Grief Stop Someone From Starting A New Relationship?

• Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Attract People Who Are Unavailable?

• Relationships: Do Some People Analyse Others In Order To Avoid Themselves?

• Relationships: Is Being Able To Grieve An Important Part Of Being Able To Receive Love?

• Relationships: Do Some People Reject Others To Avoid Being Rejected?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Hold Onto Past Relationships?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Always Moody?

• Relationships: Is Being Able To Listen As Important As Being Able To Talk?

• Relationships: Is It Important To Take Responsibility For How We Feel?

• Relationships: Why Is 'Ghosting' So Common?

• Relationships: Why Are People Who Act Superior Attracted To People Who Act Inferior?

• Relationships: Should We Expect Our Friends To Accept Us If We Change?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Shame Others For Being Vulnerable?

• Relationships: Can Someone Put An End To Dysfunctional Relationships By Leaving Relationships That Are Dysfunctional?

• Relationships: Is There A Reason Why Some People Attract People Who Can't Love Them?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Believe That They Deserve To Be Treated Badly?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Act Aggressively When A Relationship Comes To An End?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Who Are Aware End Up With People Who Are Unaware?

• Relationships: Can Our Perception Of Someone Be Defined By How Other People Describe Them?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Act Aggressively When They Don't Get What They Want?

• Relationships: Has Internet Dating Caused Some People To Believe That They Can Find The ‘Perfect’ Partner?

• Relationships: Should Someone Try To Rekindle A Friendship?

• Relationships: How Can Someone Make Sure They Don’t End Up In An Abusive Relationship?

• Relationships: Do People Hurt Others On Purpose?

• Relationships: Can How A Relationship Ends Define Whether It Can Be Rekindled?

• Relationships: Is It Good Or Bad To See The Best In People?

• Relationship: Is Self-Awareness An Important Part Of Attracting The Right Partner?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Say That All Men/Women Are The Same?

• Relationships: What Is Emotional Cut-Off?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Rescue Others Instead Of Rescuing Themselves?

• Relationships: Do Some People Use Dating Sites For Attention?

• Relationships: Is Your Inability To Listen Damaging Your Relationships?

• Relationships: Is It A Good Idea For Someone To Treat Others How They Would Like To Be Treated?

• Relationships: Are Relationship Problems Caused By Low Self-Esteem?

• Relationships: Has Internet Dating Made It Easier For People To Deceive Others?

• Internet Dating: Can Internet Dating Make People Believe They Are More Attractive Than They Are?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Who Have Empathy End Up With People Who Don't Have Empathy?

• Relationships: Do Some People End Up With People They Are Not Attracted To In Order To Avoid​ Themselves?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always End Up With People They Can Control?

• Relationships: Is It Naive For Someone To Believe That Another Person Will Change?

• Relationships: Do Some People Put Up With Dysfunctional Relationships In Order To Avoid Their True Feelings?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Blame Men/Women?

• Relationships: Why Do People Who Fear Being Abandoned End Up With People Who Fear Being Smothered?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Blame The Opposite Sex For Their Relationship Problems?

• Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Hate Men/Women?

• Relationships: Do Some People Only Have Relationships With People Who Make Them Look Good?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Take Advantage Of People Who Are Kind?

• Relationships: Do Some People’s Childhoods Set Them Up To Rescue Others?

• Relationships: Can Rescuing Others Stop Someone From Experiencing Intimacy?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People End Up With People Who Are Not As Developed?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Leave A Relationship When The Other Person Grows?

• Relationships: Can A Bad Relationship Cause Someone To Believe That All Men/Women Are The Same?

• Relationships: Do People Who Rescue Others Experience Inner Conflict?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Think They Are Superior To Men/Women?

• Relationships: When Someone Believes That All Men/Women Are The Same Is It Because They Lack Self-Awareness?

• Relationships: Do Some Websites Condition People To Believe That All Men/Women Are The Same?

• ​Relationships: Why Are Some People Only Attracted To People Who Need To Be Rescued?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Attract People Who Are Self-Centered?

• Relationships: Can Being Emotionally Disconnected Stop Someone From Having The Need To Experience Intimacy?

• Relationships: Is Being Responsive Important?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Find That Other People Are Never There When They Need Them?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Always Critical Of Men/Women?

• Relationships: Why Do Friendships Come To An End?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People's Relationships Come To An End When They Start To Work On Themselves?

• Relationships: Is Someone Only Friends With You Because They Are Attracted To You?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People End Up Feeling Needy When They Get In Touch With Their Needs?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Blame Others When Their Relationships Come To An End?

• Relationships: Is Someone A Victim If They Always End Up In Abusive Relationships?

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• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Give Unsolicited Advice?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Attracted To People Who Are Overbearing?

• Relationships: Is Empathy An Important Part Of Experiencing Intimacy?

• Relationships: Will The People That Someone Attracts Online Be Different To The People They Attract Offline?

• Relationships: Is Being Curious An Important Part Of Experiencing Intimacy?

• Relationships: Can The End Of A Relationship Trigger Someone's Childhood Pain?

• Relationships: Do You Push People Away When They Trigger Your Pain?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People End Up With People Who Are Not Available When They Leave A Relationship?

• ​Relationships: Do Some People Avoid Relationships In Order To Avoid Themselves?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Expect Too Much From Others?

• Relationships: Does Someone Leave Their Childhood Behind When They Leave Home?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Only Attracted To People They Can Overshadow?

• Relationships: Are The People Who Rescue Others Healthier Than The People They Rescue?
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• Relationships: Do Some People Only Talk To You When They Want Something?

• Relationships: Are You In A Relationship With Someone Who Is On The Rebound?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Are In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Do People Rescue Others In Order To Help Them?

• Relationships: Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Are Rescuing Others?

• Relationships: Do Some People Get Back With Their Ex In Order To Avoid How They Feel?

• Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Get in Touch With When We Want Something?

• Intimacy: Can We Get People To Open Up By Criticising Them?

• Intimacy: Why Do Some People Open Up To People Who Will Shame Them?

• 
Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who Undermine Us?

• Relationships: Is It A Form Of Indirect Revenge When Someone Always Criticises Others?

• Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who Only Accept Us When We Do What They Want?

• Relationships: Why Would Someone Try To Revive A Relationship That Isn’t Healthy?

• Relationships: Can Breaking Up Make A Relationship Better?

• Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who Try To Fix Us?

• ​Relationships: What Can Happen When Someone Is No Longer Willing To Put Up With Other People's Projections?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Shame Others When They Open Up?

• Relationships: Can A Relationship End Before Two People Hate Each Other?

• Relationships: Does Your Partner Try To Stop You From Seeing Your Friends?

• Internet Dating: Should Someone Objectify Their Body When They Use Internet Dating?

• Intimacy: Can Someone Let Go Of Their Fear Of Intimacy By Changing Their Behaviour?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Think That They Always Know Best?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Criticise Their Friends?

• Internet Dating: Should Someone Edit Their Pictures When They Use Internet Dating?

• Online Dating: Has Online Dating Made It Easier For People To Cheat?

• Online Dating: Why Are We Not Attracted To Someone When We Meet Them In Person?

• Relationships: Is Someone Displaying Real Empathy When They Rescue Others?

• Relationships: Does Someone Lack Empathy When They Tell Other People To Smile?

• Relationships: Do Some People Only Help Others Because They Feel Guilty?

• Relationships: Is It A Waste Of Energy For Someone To Try And Find Out Why Their Relationship Came To An End?

• Relationships: How Should Someone Respond When Another Person Is Indifferent?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhood Set Them Up To Feel Smothered When They Experience Intimacy?

• Relationships: Does Spirituality Allow People To Romanticize Their Issues?

• Relationships: Does Someone Need To Be Careful Who They Let Into Their Life If They Are Sensitive?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Criticize People Who Receive Attention?

• Relationships: Does Someone Need To Warn Others If They Have Been With Someone Who Is Abusive?

• Relationships: Should Someone Look At Their Childhood If They End Up In Abusive Relationships?

• Relationships: Is It The Future And Not The Present That Holds Some Relationships Together?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Attract Friends Who Are Abusive?

• Relationships: Is Your Ex Giving You False Hope?

• Relationships: Is It Normal For Someone To Have Low Self-Esteem After They Have Left An Abusive Relationship?

• Relationships: Can Someone Make Other People Feel Worthless To Avoid How They Feel?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Emotionally Unstable If They Are Not In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Do Some People Try To Understand Others In Order To Avoid Themselves?

• Relationships: Are Men And Women More Masculine/Feminine Than They Were In The Past?

• Relationships: Does The Fear Of Abandonment Cause You To Attract People Who Are Dependent?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Alternate Between Being A Victim And A Perpetrator?

• Relationships: Why Would Someone Accuse Their Partner Of Cheating?

• Relationships: Can Self-Development Condition People To Believe That They Need To Be Perfect To Have A Relationship?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Drawn To People Who Come Across As Certain?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Only Feel Valuable When They Are Rescuing Others?

• Relationships: Is Someone Unlucky If They Always End Up With The Wrong People?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Unable To Move On From Their First Love?

• Relationships: Do Our Younger Years Define How We See Men/Women?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Message Others And Then Say They Are Busy When It Comes To Getting Together?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Put Up With Bad Behaviour When Someone Is Attractive?

• Relationships: How Should Someone Respond When Another Person Doesn’t Put In Any Effort?

• Relationships: Can Being Needy Cause Someone To Put Up With Bad Behaviour?

• Online Dating: Do Some Peoples Profiles Reveal What Kind Of Person They Attract?

• Relationships: Why Do Some Relationships Come To An End When One Person Has Therapy?

​• Online Dating: Can Someone Increase Their Chances Of Being Rejected When They Edit Their Pictures?

• Relationships: Are Some People More Interested In What People Say Than What They Do?

• Relationships: Is Femininity Good And Masculinity Bad?

• Relationships: Should Someone Find Out About Another Person's History Before They Start A Relationship With Them?

​• Relationships: Is Being Indifferent A Great Way To Destroy A Relationship?

​• Relationships: Is There Less Need For Someone To Develop Their Personality When They Are Attractive?

• Relationships: Can Someone Put Up With Bad Behaviour When They Don't Value Themselves?

• Dating: Do Some People Have Sneaky Ways To Leave A Date If It Isn't Going Well?

• Intimacy: Do Some People's Childhoods Stop Them From Being Able To Experience Intimacy?

• Relationships: Can Someone Have A Healthy Relationship With Another Person If They Have A History Of Abusive Relationships?

• Relationships: Should Someone Look Into What Is Taking Place Within Them If They Attract People Who Are Unavailable?

• Relationships: Do People Have Fulfilling Relationships If They Are Attractive?

• Relationships: Does Someone Lack Self-Awareness If They Say They Are Unlucky In Love?

​• Relationships: How Can Someone Experience The Desire To Be In A Relationship When They Have Had So Many Bad Experiences?

​• Relationships: It Is Normal For Someone's Ex To No Longer Talk To Them?

​• Relationships: Why Do Some People With High Self-Esteem End Up in Abusive Relationships?

​• Relationships: Are Friends The People We Have In Our Life Who Always Talk About Themselves?

• Relationships: If Someone Feels Ashamed Of Their Needs Can It Stop Them From Recognising When Someone Is Self-Centred?

• Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who We Rescue?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Only Attracted To People Who Are Unavailable?

• Relationships: Is Someone Unlucky If They Always Attract People Who Are Unavailable?

• Relationships: Is Someone Unlucky If They Always End Up In Abusive Relationships?

• Relationships: Who Do Some People Always Look For Someone Else Before They Leave A Relationship?

• Relationships: Can Being Needy Cause Someone To Be Attracted To The Wrong People?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up Feel Comfortable Around People Who Are Self-Centred?

• Relationships: Do Some People Only Feel Valuable When They Are Focusing On Other People’s Needs?

• Relationships: Can Someone Be Attracted To The Wrong People When They Feel Worthless?

• Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Attract People Who Are Needy?

• Relationships: Are Some People Destined To Attract People Who Are Abusive?

• Dating: Can Being Needy Stop Someone From Being Able To See If Another Person Is Right For Them?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Feel Comfortable With People Who’re Abusive?

• Relationships: Do People Say That All Men/Women Are The Same To Avoid Taking Responsibility?

• Dating: Is It Easier For Someone To Hide Their Insecurities If They Are Attractive?

• Relationships: Can Someone Put Up With Bad Behaviour When They Feel Worthless?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Believe That They Are Not Enough For The Opposite Sex?

• Dating: Can Someone Push Other People Away If They Are Needy?

• Relationships: Do You Hide Your True-Self When You Are Around Your Friends?

• Relationships: Can Someone Try To Change Others When They Feel Worthless?

​• Relationships: Is It A Form Of Indirect Revenge When Someone Leads Another Person On?

• Relationships: Do People’s Friends Reveal If They Value Themselves?

• Relationships: Are Some People Only Friendly When They Are Nervous?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Needy When They Are In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Is Empathy Important In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Is It A Good Idea For Someone To Ask Themselves Why They Want To Be In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Does Someone Just Need To Stay Positive If They Attract The Wrong People?

• Relationships: Can Someone Put Other People Down When They Feel Worthless?

• Dating: Can Being Needy Stop Someone From Having Boundaries?

• Relationships: Is It A Surprise For People Who Are Attractive To Be Single?

• Relationships: Do Some People Use The Law Of Attraction To Shame Others?

• Relationships: Are Some People Destined To Attract People Who Are Unavailable?

• Intimacy: Can Feeling Worthless Stop Someone From Being Able To Experience Intimacy?

• Relationships: Is It Impossible To Have A Relationship With Someone Who Lacks Empathy?

• Relationships: Can The Fear Of Rejection Cause Someone To Please Others?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Act Like A Victim When They Have Done Something Wrong?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Believe That They Have To Do What Other People Want In Order To Be Accepted?


• Relationships: Does Someone Have A False Sense Of Importance When They Always Expect Others To Change?

• Relationship: Why Do Some People Only Feel Valuable When They Are In A Relationship?

• Relationships: What Can Someone Do When Another Person Projects Their Issues Onto Them?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Walk On Egg Shells When They Are Around Others?

• Online Dating: Should Someone Take It Personally If Another Person Goes Silent On Them?

• Relationships: It Is A Good Idea To Put Someone On A Pedestal?

• Relationships: Can The Fear Of Abandonment Cause Someone To Believe That Their Partner Will Leave Them?


• Relationships: Are Friends The People We Have In Our Life Who Try To Change Us?

• Relationships: What Can Happen When Someone No Longer Feels Worthless?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Cause Them To Close Their Heart?

• Relationships: Can Being Tolerant Cause Someone To Be Abused?

• Relationships: Is It A Good Idea For Someone To Ask Themselves Why They Want To Rescue Another Person?

• Relationships: Are The People Who Try To Do Everything By Themselves Developmentally Stunted?

• Relationships: When Someone Tells Other People How To Live Their Life Does It Show That They Lack Empathy?


• Relationships: What Can Happen When Two People Put On An Act During The Start Of A Relationship?

• Relationships: Do Some People Only Listen So That They Can Talk?

• Relationships: Is Someone More Likely To End Up In An Abusive Relationship When They Are Emotionally Dependent?

• Relationships: Is It Harder For Someone To Leave An Abusive Relationship When They Are Emotionally Dependent?


• Relationships: Should Someone Ask Themselves Why They Want To Cheat?

• Relationships: Has Someone Moved On If They Are In A New Relationship?

• Relationships: Why Doesn't It Always Work When Someone Ends Up With The Person They Were Having An Affair With?

• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Make It Harder For Someone To Handle A Breakup?

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• Relationships: If Someone Is Still Attached To Their Ex Can It Stop Them From Being Able To Embrace Their Current Relationship?

• Relationships: Do We Only Allow People To Treat Us As Bad As We Treat Ourselves?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Come On Strong And Then Go Silent?


• Relationships: Should Someone Change When They Get Into A Relationship?

• Relationships: Can The Fear Of Rejection Cause Someone To Change When They Get Into A Relationship?

• Intimacy: Does Someone Need To Feel Safe In Order To Experience Intimacy?

• Relationships: Do Some People Only Have Relationships With People Who Will Make Them Look Good?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Expect Their Partner To Meet All Of Their Needs?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Neglect Their Own Needs When They Get Into A Relationship?

• Relationships: Does Someone Need To Feel Comfortable With Their Own Emotions In Order To Experience Intimacy?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Always Try To Fix Others When They Open Up?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Emotionally Dependent On Their Partner?

• Relationships: Can Someone’s Unmet Childhood Needs Cause Them To Expect Other People To Be Unconditionally Loyal?

• Relationships: Why Don’t Some People Realise They Are In A Dysfunctional Relationship?

• Relationships: Do We Judge Others In The Same Way That We Judge Ourselves?

• Relationships: Is There A Reason Why Some People Always End Up With People Who Cheat On Them?

• Relationships: Is Someone's View Of The Opposite Sex Created At A Time When They Couldn't Think Clearly?

• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Stop Someone From Being Able To Move on After A Breakup?

• Relationships: Can Someone Put Up With Controlling Behaviour When They Are Emotionally Dependent?

• Relationships: Can Someone End Up With The Wrong Person If They Feel Low?

• Relationships: Why Would Someone Act Really Interested?

• Relationships: Can Someone’s Unmet Childhood Needs Cause Them To Expect Too Much From Others?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Stay In Touch With Their Ex?

• Relationships: Should Someone To Ask Themselves Why They Want To Get Back With Their Ex?

• Dating: Should Someone Message Another Person If They Go Silent?


• Dating: Is It A Good Sign If Someone Is 'Spiritual'?

• Dating: Does It Matter What Someone's Political Views Are?

• Relationships: Is Someone Out Of Balance If They Rescue Others?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Trapped Around Others?

• ​Relationships: Is Our Life Defined By The Inner Models That Other People Have Of Us?

• Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhood Set Them Up To Feel Safe With Abuse?

• Dating: Can Someone End Up With The Wrong Person If They Need Attention?

• Relationships: What Can Happen To Someone When Their Partner Denies That They Are Cheating?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Lose Interest When Another Person Treats Them Well?

• Relationships: Can Smartphone’s Destroy Relationships?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Have The Need To Be Needed'?

• Relationships: Who Do Some People Focus On Other People’s Problems?

• Relationships: Do Some People Need To Experience A Few Bad Relationships Before They Can Appreciate A Good One?

• Relationships: Can The Fear Of Being Seen Cause Someone To Attract People Who Are Unavailable?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Try To Take Other People's Pain Away?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Lose Themselves When They Get Into A Relationship?

• Dating: Should Someone Be Suspicious If Another Person Acts Extremely Interested In The Beginning?

• Relationships: Is It Harder For Someone To Settle Down If They Have Been With A Lot Of People?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Associate Love With Drama?

• Intimacy: Can Someone Be Unaware Of Their Own Fear Of Intimacy? 

• Relationships: Can Someone’s Inner Critic Cause Them To Put Up With Abusive Behaviour?

• Relationships: Are We Attracted To The People Who Will Allow Us To Replay Unresolved Childhood Trauma?

• Relationships: Does Our Unconscious Mind Define Who We End Up With?

• Relationships: Is There A Difference Between Helping Someone And Trying To Rescue Them?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Become Obsessed When They’re In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Act As Though They Are An Extension Of Others?

• Relationships: How Can Someone Know If They Are Ready For A Relationship?

• Relationships: Are Some People Addicted To Feeling Rejected?

• Relationships: Is It Harder For Someone To Leave An Abusive Relationship If They Feel Worthless?

• Relationships: Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Are Being Controlled?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Only Feel Good About Themselves When They're In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Can Shame Stop Someone From Reaching Out To Others?

• Relationships: Can The Fear Of Abandonment Cause Someone Let Anyone Into Their Life?

• Relationships: Can Someone's Split-Off Parts Cause Them To Have Affairs?

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• Relationships: Can The Fear Of Abandonment Cause Someone To Attract People Who Are Emotionally Dependent?

• Relationships: Do Some People Shut Down Emotionally After A Breakup?

• Relationships: What Can Someone Do If They Keep Ending Up With The Wrong Person?

• Relationships: Can Someone Have Affairs When They Have A Fear Of Abandonment?

• Online Dating: Should Both Men And Women Be Careful What They Reveal If They Want A Relationship?

• Relationships: Is It A Good Sign If Someone Is Extremely Attracted To Another Person?

• Relationships: Can Someone Have Relationship Problems If They Lack Self-Awareness?

• Relationships: Can Someone’s Adult Relationships Reflect What Took Place During Their Early Years?

• Relationships: Should Someone Get Back With Their Ex Back?

• Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Walk on Eggshells?

• Relationships: Can A Lack Of Emotional Intelligence Cause Someone To Cheat?

• Relationships: Can A Relationship Bring Up Someone’s Attachment Trauma?

• Relationships: Is The Purpose Of A Relationship To Trigger Old Wounds?

• Relationships: Why Would Someone Try To Make Their Ex Look Bad?

• Dating: Is It A Bad Idea To Have Sex On The First Date?

• Relationships: Can Someone End Up With Deeply Wounded People If They Are Out Of Touch With Their Wounds?

• Relationships: Is It Possible To End Up With The Wrong Person?

• Relationships: Can Someone Be Emotionally Unavailable Even Though They’re In A Relationship?

• Sexuality: Can Someone’s Early Years Have An Effect On What Turns Them On As An Adult?

• Relationships: Why Do Some Intellectually Developed People End Up With People Who Are Emotionally Undeveloped?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Believe That They Are Not Enough?

• Relationships: Why Are Some People Attracted To People Who Are Emotionally Unstable?

• Relationships: Can Someone End Up Being Dependent On Others If Their Adult Self Is Undeveloped?

• Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Crave Love?

• Relationships: Is Your Emotional State Controlled By Other People's Moods?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Hide Their True-Self In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Can Someone's Need To Save Others Have A Negative Effect On Their Relationships?

• Relationships: Is It Important To Be Able To Hold Space For Others?

• Relationships: Can The Fear Of Abandonment Cause Someone To Be Controlling?

• Relationships: Can A Relationship Bring Up Emotions That Were Frozen?

• Relationships: Can A Relationship Allow Someone To Become More Integrated?

• Relationships: Why Do Some People Fall Apart When A Relationship Comes To An End?

• Relationships: Can Someone Push Other People Away When If They Feel Worthless?

• Relationships: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Feel Comfortable With Hot And Cold Behaviour?

• Relationships: Can A Past Life Connection Cause Someone To Stay In A Dysfunctional Relationship?

• Relationships: Can Someone Look Towards Others To Fulfil Their Unmet Childhood Needs?

• Love Bombing: Are Some People Easy Targets For 'Love Bombers'?

• Intimacy: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Have A Fear Of Intimacy?

• Relationships: Why Would Someone Lose Themselves When They Get Into A Relationship?

• Relationships: What Can Someone Do If They Are Triggered In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Is It Normal For Someone To Shut Down If Their Partner Is Not Responsive?

• Relationships: Why Would Someone Feel Smothered Whenever Their Partner Expresses Their Needs?

• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Define How Someone Sees The Opposite Sex?

• Relationships: What Can Someone Do If Another Person Is Triggered?

• Intimacy: Can Childhood Trauma Set Someone Up To Have A Fear Of Intimacy?

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• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Feel Trapped Around Others?

• Relationships: Can Someone Project Their Parent/s Onto Other People?

​• Relationships: Does Someone Need To Emotionally Separate From Their Caregivers To Be Emotionally Available?

• Relationships: Are There Four People In Every Relationship?

• Intimacy: Can It Take A Relationship For Someone To Realise They Are Emotionally Disconnected?

• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Lose Themselves In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Are Some People Here To Save/Rescue Others?

• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Emotionally Shut Down Around Others?

• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Keep People At A Distance? 

• Relationships: Do Relationships Allow Someone To Come Into Contact With Their Unconscious Mind?

• Relationships: Do Relationships Allow Someone To Come Into Contact With Their Repressed Emotions?

• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Associate Getting Close To Others With Being Annihilated?

• Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Lose Themselves Around Others?

​​• Human Contact: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Fear Human Contact?

• Intimacy: Can Developmental Trauma Make It Hard For Someone To Show Up In A Relationship? 

• Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Believe That They Have To Lose Themselves In A Relationship?   

• Relationships: Can Someone Fear Human Contact If They Had An Intrusive Caregiver?

• Intimacy: Can Someone Have A Dysfunctional View Of Intimacy If They Experienced Childhood Trauma?

• Human Contact: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Fear Human Contact?

• Human Contact: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Associate Human Contact With Death?

​• Human Contact: Can Someone Prefer Things Instead Of People If They Experienced Developmental Trauma?

​• Intimacy: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Deprive Themselves of Intimacy?

• Relationships: Can Developmental Trauma Make It Hard For Someone To Be Present In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Can Someone Need To Learn To Be Interdependent If They Experienced Childhood Trauma?

• Human Contact: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Need For Human Contact?

• Relationships: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Expect To Be Left?

• Relationships: Are Someone’s Adult Relationships A Replay Of Their Early Relationships?

• Relationships: Can Someone’s Childhood Set Them Up To Believe That It Is Their Responsibility To Save Others?

• Relationships: Can Someone’s Childhood Cause Them To Play The Victim Role In A Relationship?

• Relationships: Can Developmental Trauma Take Away Someone’s Desire To Attach To Others?

• Relationships: Can Someone Push Love Away If They Were Mistreated During Their Early Years? 

• Relationships: Can Someone Say That All Men/Women Are The Same To Avoid How They Feel?

• Intimacy: Can Someone Pathologize Themselves If They Have A Fear Of Intimacy?

• Relationships: Does A Lot Of Relationship Advice Encourage People To See Themselves As Powerless Victims?

• Relationships: Why Would Someone Dehumanise Their Ex?

• Relationships: Can A Relationship Allow Someone To Meet Their ‘Shadow?’

• Relationships: Why Would Someone Be Unable To Accept That Their Partner Is Unavailable?   

• Relationships: Can Someone Get Over Their Ex By Sleeping With Other People?

• Relationships: Why Do Some Attractive People End Up With People Who Mistreat Them?


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