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Written on September , 2024
Category: Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mother Have A Narcissistic Defence?
Written on September 11, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man has come to see that he is neglecting himself because he is too focused on his mother, he might need to talk to her about what is going on. He might want to explain to her that behaving in this way is not serving him and he no longer wants to do as much for her. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Make “The Unconscious Conscious”?
Written on September 10, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man can see that he is out of balance, due to how caught up he is with his mother’s needs, two things can cross his mind. First, he can wonder why he is this way and, second, if there is anything that he can do to change his life. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mother See Him As Her Saviour?
Written on September 8, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man was to see that he is overly focused on his mother, he can wonder why he is this way. But, if he is behaving more like her parent than her son, it is to be expected he would be confused. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man An Extension Of His Mother?
Written on September 8, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man behaves as though he is merely an extension of his mother, it is going to be clear that he needs to change his behaviour. Ultimately, he is not here to be his mother’s slave; he is here to live his own life. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mother Make Him Into Her Parent?
Written on September 7, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man were to take a step back and reflect on his life, he may see that he is more like his mothers parent than her son. The reason for this is that he could spend a lot of time doing things for her. Romance Scammers: Why Wouldn’t Someone Be Able To Accept That They Are Talking To A Romance Scammer?
Written on September 5, 2024
Category: Social Causes After one has spoken to a friend or family member on a number of occasions about the person who they are in a relationship with, they could soon come to the conclusion that something isn’t right. This could be because they are with someone who is physically and/or verbally abusive, but, this might not be the case. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mother Have Narcissistic Tendencies?
Written on September 4, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man has come to see that he is overly focused on his mother and ignores himself, he can struggle to understand why he is this way. What could be clear is that it doesn’t make any sense for him to be this way. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Fear That They Are Going To Die If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on September 3, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even if someone fears that they are going to die, it doesn’t mean that they will generally be aware of this. Now, there will be a time when their life will come to an end; of course, death is part of life. Early Deprivation: Can A Man Have A Disembodied Sense Of Self If He Was Abused As A Child?
Written on September 1, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology What can be normal is for a man to generally live in his head and thus, be out of touch with his feelings and instincts. He is then going to look like a whole human being but he typically won’t operate as one. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Empty If His Mother Was Unable To Love Him?
Written on August 31, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even if a man feels as if something is missing, it doesn’t mean that he will be consciously aware of this. One reason for this is that he could live in a way that allows him to avoid how he feels. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone Believe That Their True Self Is Bad?
Written on August 29, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they tend to hide their needs and how they feel. Along with this, there might also be parts of themselves and interests that they keep hidden. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Too Traumatised To Separate From His Mother?
Written on August 26, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology What is clear is that if a man’s life revolves around his mother, he is not going to be able to live his own life. To use an analogy, it will be as though he is driving a car and instead of driving where he needs to go, he continually follows another car. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Have A Midlife Crisis?
Written on August 24, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Now that someone is in their forties or fifties, they could have a deep sense that something is missing. This can mean that certain parts of their life are no longer satisfying, or this could relate to their whole life. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Being Controlled By His Inner Mother?
Written on August 23, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology As an adult, a man is free to do what is right for him and live his own life. However, if he spends most of his life focused on and doing things for his mother, he is unlikely to realise this. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Suffer From Depression?
Written on August 22, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect For quite some time now, someone might have suffered from depression. As a result of this, they can typically have a low mode, not be able to experience pleasure or be interested in doing a great deal. Early Deprivation: Why Would Someone’s Parent Have Made Them Into Their Parent?
Written on August 20, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to take a step back and reflect on how they behave, they may find that they have the inclination to ignore their own needs and be there for others. After this, they might see that they have been this way for as long as they can remember. Early Deprivation: What Can Happen If Someone’s Parent Made Them Into Their Parent?
Written on August 19, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even if someone is an adult, it doesn’t mean that they will have actually had a childhood. Of course, there will have been a stage of their life when they were a child but this might have been a stage when they were rarely able to be a child. Child Abuse: Can Someone Fear Intimacy If They Had An Intrusive Parent?
Written on August 18, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Although someone will want to experience deeper connections with others, it doesn’t mean that they will be able to do so. So, they could find that other people are out of reach and they are unable to get close to them. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Fear That He Would Lose Himself If He Left His Mother?
Written on August 17, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man were to see that he is overly focused on his mother and is neglecting himself, he might soon feel the need to spend less time being there for her and more time being there for himself. However, this doesn’t mean that he will just be able to draw the line with her and start living his own life. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Be Out Of Touch With Their True Self If They Had A Parent Who Was Emotionally Blind?
Written on August 16, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone can find is that they have trouble knowing how they feel and what their needs are. They might see that they have been this way for as long as they can remember. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Trying To Be Seen And Heard By His Mother?
Written on August 15, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man generally wasn’t seen and heard by his mother during his formative years, it doesn’t mean that he no longer has these needs. He can then be in a position where just about his whole life revolves around his mother and his need to be seen and heard by her. Child Abuse: Can An Enabling Father Do As Much Damage As An Abusive Mother?
Written on August 14, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to step back and reflect on their formative years, they may see that this stage of their life was not very nurturing. This may have been a time when their mother was often abusive. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Hate Himself If He Had A Mother Who Hated Him?
Written on August 10, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology What can be normal is for a man to experience ‘negative’ thoughts and to feel bad about himself. Thanks to this, he can spend a lot of time feeling low and depressed. Mother Wounds: Can A Mother’s Fear Of The Masculine Cause Her To Emasculate Her Son?
Written on August 6, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology In general, a man could be passive, easy-going, not stand up for himself or be assertive. Consequently, he is seldom going to take action, express his opinion, stand his ground or assert himself. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Comfortable Being Treated Badly By Women If His Mother Hated Him?
Written on August 5, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Right now, a man could be with a woman who doesn’t treat him very well. So, what can be normal is for him to be put down, humiliated, ignored, rejected and there may even be times when he is hit. Mother Wounds: Is A Man Wasting His Time If He Tries To Find Out Why His Mother Hated Him?
Written on August 4, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology After a man has come to see that his mother didn’t treat him very well during his formative years, he can have the need to talk to her about what took place. Based on what he experienced, he might have come to the conclusion that she hated him. Mother Wounds: Why Would A Mother Have Hated Her Son?
Written on August 3, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man were to step back and reflect on his early years, he might see that his mother often treated him like he was nothing. So, he might have frequently been criticised, humiliated, hit, rejected, and even left by her. Mother Wounds: What Can Happen If A Man Was Brought Up By A Mother Who Hated Him?
Written on August 2, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man was brought up by a mother who, in general, wasn’t very nurturing, it doesn’t mean that he will be aware of this. So, when he thinks about this stage of his life, he could think about how his mother did love him but that she didn’t always show it. Self-Destructive: Can Someone Sabotage Their Life If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on August 1, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may find is that just about whenever they take a step forward, they soon end up taking a step back. There can also be times when they end up taking more than one step back. Invisible Child: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Being Seen If They Were An ‘Invisible Child’?
Written on July 30, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Although someone can be used to being physically seen by others, it doesn’t mean that they will feel seen. In general, they can feel as though they are not seen and even question if they exist. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man Have To Abandon Himself?
Written on July 29, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a woman is with a man who is focused on his mother’s needs and does what he can to please her, she is likely to wonder what is going on. She can struggle to understand why he is behaving in this way. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Believe That He Is Worthless If He Had An Abusive Mother?
Written on July 28, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If someone were to reflect on how a man behaves, they could soon come to the conclusion that he doesn’t value himself. The reason for this is that he could have a job that he can’t stand and be in a relationship where he is walked over. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Looking For A Mother Figure?
Written on July 27, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology After a woman has been with a man for a while, what might enter her mind is that she is more like his mother than his girlfriend. Now, there can be a variety of reasons as to why she would come to this conclusion. Breakups: Can A Man Punish Himself After A Breakup?
Written on July 24, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology After a man has experienced a breakup, he can experience a number of different feelings. For example, he can feel angry, sad, helpless, and hopeless and be full of regret, Withdrawal: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Withdraw Under Stress?
Written on July 22, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they behave in a way that doesn’t serve them when they experience a lot of stress. So, they can see that they have the tendency to withdraw physically. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Want To Save His Mother?
Written on July 21, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology A man could have a mother who is unwell or he might not but he could still spend a lot of time doing things for her. From the outside, it can be as though she is his daughter and it is his responsibility to take care of her. Child Abuse: Can Someone Have The Need To Stay Small If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on July 20, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone can be free to express themselves, it doesn’t mean that they will do so. Instead, based on how they typically behave, it can be as though they are in an invisible prison. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Have An Idealised View Of His Father?
Written on July 20, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man were to take a step back and reflect on his life, he could see that he is too focused on his mothers needs and is ignoring a number of his own. He might soon find that this is how he has been for as long as he can remember. Child Abuse: Can An Abusive Parent Be Too Wounded To Admit That They Were Abusive?
Written on July 18, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to come to see that their early years were anything but nurturing, they could feel the need to talk to their parent or parents about what happened. They can hope that this will be a time when what they say is validated and empathy and remorse are expressed. Willpower: Can A Man Have A Weak Will If He Had Controlling Parents?
Written on July 17, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology What a man may find, if he were to take a step back and reflect, is that he finds it hard to stick to things. So, he can come up with a goal and start taking action and then, before long, he can put it to one side. Child Abuse: Can It Be Easy For An Abusive Parent To Get Away With Abusing Their Child?
Written on July 16, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was attacked in a public place, they could end up paying a visit to a police station. They will have been harmed, so naturally they will want to do something about what has happened. Willpower: Can Someone Have A Weak Will If They Had Controlling Parents
Written on July 15, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology It has been said that when there is a will, there is a way. What this illustrates is how important willpower is when it comes to achieving something. Is Our Past All Over Our Present?
Written on July 12, 2024
Category: My Blog The other day, when I was walking around a city, I saw a number of street names that reflected its medieval past. This was in addition to all of the buildings from this period that were dotted around. Invisible Child: What Can Happen If Someone Was An ‘Invisible Child’?
Written on July 9, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect During someone’s early years, a time when they needed to be seen and heard in order to grow and develop in the right way, they might have largely been ignored. This would then have been a time when their basic needs might have typically been met but their emotional needs wouldn’t have. Child Abuse: What Can Happen If Someone Was Treated Like Their Parents Enemy?
Written on July 8, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone wasn’t cherished during their formative years, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. But, if they were able to take a step back and reflect on how they experience life, what might soon stand out is that they are not in a good way mentally and emotionally. Critical Thinking: Why Do Some People Look Towards Other Human Beings To Save Them?
Written on July 7, 2024
Category: Social Causes During an election, numerous people vote for a party that they believe is going to change their lives for the better. For some of these people, what goes on at this level defines what their life is like. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Disconnected If He Had An Unavailable Mother?
Written on July 6, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man reflects on his life, what he can find is that he often feels as though he is on the outside and doesn’t feel connected to others. This can mean that he will spend a lot of time feeling lonely. Child Abuse: Can An Abusive Parent Have An Idealised False Self?
Written on July 5, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to come to see that they were mistreated during their formative years, they might have the need to talk to their abusive parent or parents about what happened. Now, assuming that it was one parent who mistreated them or that one of their parents has passed on, they might not get very far. False-Self: Can Someone Have A Needless False Self If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on July 4, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone will have a number of needs, they could typically act as though they only have a few needs. They can then come across as though they merely have basic and mental needs, for instance. Football: Did Cristiano Ronaldo “Cry Like A Little Girl” During The Portugal vs. Slovenia Football Match?
Written on July 3, 2024
Category: Social Causes Since the match between Portugal vs. Slovenia in the European football championship, a lot has been said about the emotion that Cristiano Ronaldo expressed after he missed a penalty. Some people have criticised him for crying after he missed a penalty, while others have been supportive. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Believe That He Will Be Free After His Mother Has Passed On?
Written on July 2, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even though a man will be free to live his own life, it doesn’t mean that he will feel this way. Instead, he can feel as though his mother owns him and is then in control of what he does or doesn’t do. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Feel Responsible If His Mother Becomes Ill?
Written on July 1, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even if a man does a lot for his mother and neglects a number of his own needs in the process, it doesn’t mean that he won’t end up in a position where he de does even more for her. This is something that can take place if his mother was to become unwell and less capable of looking after herself. Child Abuse: Can Someone Be Very Guarded If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on June 30, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Although someone can want to experience intimacy, it doesn’t mean that they have been able to experience it. So, they might have spent a fair amount of time on their appearance and spent time socialising but not been able to make much progress. Being Seen: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Being Seen If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on June 28, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to take a step back and reflect on how they typically feel, what they could soon notice is that they often feel invisible, ignored and lonely. They can show that when they are around others, they seldom feel seen and heard. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man In An Emotionally Collapsed State?
Written on June 26, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where he has the tendency to do what his mother wants and neglects a number of his own needs, it could be said that he needs to assert himself. However, although this is what he will need to do, it doesn’t mean that this will take place. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Feel Abandoned After His Mother Has Passed On?
Written on June 25, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man’s life revolves around his mother and has been this way since he was a boy, it is naturally going to be difficult for him when she passes on. However, he might rarely if ever think about her passing on. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Realise That His Feeling’s Don’t Always Reflect Realty?
Written on June 24, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man typically acts as though he is an extension of his mother, behaving in this way is likely to allow him to avoid certain feelings. Thus, as deprived as he is likely to be by living in this way, it will allow him to keep it together and function. Boundaries: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Build Walls Around Themselves?
Written on June 21, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may find, if they were to reflect on their life is that they have trouble letting people get close to them. This can mean that they will spend a fair amount of time by themselves. Loneliness: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Experience Loneliness?
Written on June 20, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what could soon stand out is that they often feel cut off from others and alone. They could see that this is how they have been for most of their life. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Be Driven By Hope If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on June 19, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even if someone is very driven, it doesn’t mean that this is a sign that they are in a good way mentally and emotionally and value themselves. Still, it can appear this way as being highly motivated is often seen as a sign that someone is in a good way and has ‘high self-esteem’. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have A Negative Self-Image If His Mother Was Abusive?
Written on June 16, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man was to take a step back and reflect on how he sees himself, what could soon stand out is that he doesn’t have a very positive view. He could find that he feels worthless and unlovable. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Invisible If He Had An Unavailable Mother?
Written on June 15, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man were to take a step back and reflect on his life, what he may find is that he often feels unseen and unheard and as though he doesn’t even exist. He is then going to have a physical body and be able to be seen by others but he will seldom feel seen. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Be Out Of Touch With His Needs If He Had An Unavailable Mother?
Written on June 14, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even though a man is an interdependent human being who has needs, it doesn’t mean that he will act like one. In general, he could act as if he is an independent human being and doesn’t have needs. Intimacy: Can A Man Be Out Of Touch With His Need For Intimacy He Had An Unavailable Mother?
Written on June 9, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man were to take a step back and reflect on his life, what he could find is that he generally acts as though he doesn’t have the need to connect to a woman. As a result of this, a number of his needs are typically not going to be met. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can False Hope Stop A Mother-Enmeshed Man From Living His Own Life?
Written on June 4, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology On the surface, it can seem as though a man who is focused on his mother and ignores his own life is happy with how things are. This is partly because of how he behaves and what he is likely to say if he is asked why he behaving in this way. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can False Hope Cause A Woman To Stay With A Mother-Enmeshed Man?
Written on June 3, 2024
Category: Women's Psychology After a woman has come to see that she is with a man who is overly focused on his mother, she could take the time to think about what she needs to do next. This may also involve her talking to a few of her friends about what is going on. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Believe That He Let His Ex Down?
Written on June 1, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology A few weeks, months or even years ago, a man who is emotionally entangled with his mother might have been in a relationship. He might seldom if ever think about his ex, or he could often think about her. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man Experience Womb Trauma?
Written on May 31, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where he is unable to live his own life due to how focused he is on his mother, it will be clear that he is out of balance. He will be acting more like an extension of his mother than a separate human being who has his own needs and feelings. Early Deprivation: Why Would Someone Go Into An Emotionally Collapsed State After A Setback?
Written on May 29, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may see, if they were to take a step back and reflect on their life, is that they have the tendency to fall into a deep hole when something doesn’t go as they want it to. Due to this, this will be a time when they will experience disempowering thoughts and feelings. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Will A Mother-Enmeshed Man Have A Lot Of Loss To Work Through?
Written on May 28, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology After coming to see that he is acting like an extension of his mother and is ignoring himself, a man can look into what he can do to change his life. Still, he might see that this is not going to happen overnight. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Forgive Himself?
Written on May 26, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man has recently become aware of how caught up he is in his mother’s world and has a rough idea of what happened during his formative years, he could often experience a fair amount of anger, rage and hate. This is how he can feel whenever he is around his mother and when he thinks about how he was treated by her. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Be Disembodied?
Written on May 21, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone doesn’t have a strong connection with their body and their feelings, something significant might need to take place for them to realise this. It might seem strange that they wouldn’t be aware of this. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Mistreat His Partner?
Written on May 21, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology What a woman may struggle to understand is why the man that she is with treats his mother well but not her. Most likely, it wasn’t this way when they first started spending time together. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Only Blame His Father For What Happened?
Written on May 20, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man has come to see that he is neglecting his own life due to how much he does for his mother, he can believe that his father is at fault for how he behaves. He can then be frustrated and even angry about how he lives his life but his mother won’t have played a part. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Fall Apart Without External Structure If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on May 18, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect In general, someone could be fairly settled and only experience anxiety and fear, for example, from time to time. Due to this, they could see themselves as someone who is in a good way mentally and emotionally. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Create A Disembodied Sense Of Self?
Written on May 16, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect As someone is a human being, it means that they will have a head and a body. And, on the inside, they will have and thoughts, feelings and instincts. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Was A Mother-Enmeshed Man Sacrificed By His Parents?
Written on May 14, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology For some people, it will be clear that something is not right if a man is focused on his mother and is not there for himself. He will be a separate human being, who has his own needs and life to lead, and yet, he won’t act like one. Early Deprivation: Is Self-Hate Passed Down From One Generation To Another?
Written on May 12, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what they might find is that they find it hard to feel good about themselves. What could stand out, if they were to take a closer look at how they feel during these moments, is that they feel worthless, unlovable and deeply ashamed. Mother Wounds: Will A Man Unconsciously Project The Mother That He Had Into Women?
Written on May 4, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology When a man meets a woman, it might not be long until he develops a view of her. After this, he can believe that the view that he has formed of her is a reflection of what she is like. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Unconsciously Look For A Mother Figure If His Mother Was Unavailable?
Written on April 30, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even though a man’s childhood is well and truly behind him, it doesn’t mean that every part of him has moved on from this stage of his life. A big part of him can be frozen in time and still trying to receive what was not provided all those years ago. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Find It Hard To Assert Himself?
Written on April 24, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology After a man has become aware of the fact that he is overly focused on his mother and is ignoring his own life, he may also find that he doesn’t have a strong need to do anything about it. If he is single, then, he will continue to suffer and, if he is in a relationship, his partner will also suffer. Early Deprivation: What Can Happen If Someone Was Treated Like An Object During Their Childhood?
Written on April 20, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Although someone is a separate human being with their own needs, feelings and life to lead, it doesn’t mean that they will realise this. Instead, they can feel like they are simply an extension of others. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Projecting The Mother He Wanted Into His Mother?
Written on April 17, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where practically his whole life revolves around his mother and he is in a relationship, it can be hard for his partner to understand what is going on. But, as he will be her son, not her parent, this is to be expected. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Create A Disconnected False Self?
Written on April 15, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect When someone is connected to their body, they will have access to their needs and feelings. By having this connection to themselves, they will be able to freely express who they are and live a life that is worth living. True Self: Can Someone Abandon Themselves If They Had A Narcissistic Parent?
Written on April 12, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on how they behave, is that they have the tendency to ignore their feelings and a number of their needs. Due to this, they are typically going to act as though they are an extension of others as opposed to a separate human being. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Believe That They Are Not Enough If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on April 1, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone doesn’t believe that they are enough, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. But, even if this is the case, it is still going to have a big impact on their life. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Fear Women If His Mother Was Abusive?
Written on March 30, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even if a man fears women, it doesn’t mean that he will be consciously aware of this. If so, being this way will have a big impact on his life but he won’t realise what is going on. Breakups: Why Would A Man End Up Sleeping Around After He Has Experienced A Breakup?
Written on March 29, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology After a breakup, a man could take his time before he dates or merely share his body with another woman. If so, this can show that he has been greatly affected by what has happened. Child Abuse: Is Someone Wasting Their Time If They Are Trying To Get Through To Their Abusive Parent?
Written on March 28, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was mistreated during their formative years, they might not be in a good way now that they are an adult. In fact, their life could be one big struggle, with them wondering if they even want to be alive. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Expect To Be Rejected By Women If He Had An Emotionally Unavailable Mother?
Written on March 26, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even if a man was to see a woman who he is attracted to, it doesn’t mean that he would take the next step. Instead, he could talk himself out of speaking to her and let the chance pass. Child Abuse: Can Someone Feel Guilty For Living Their Own Life If They Had A Manipulative Parent?
Written on March 25, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone takes a step back and reflects on their life, what they can see is that they often do things that they don’t want to do. So, they can have the tendency to say yes when they would rather say no. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Woman Help A Mother-Enmeshed Man To Break Away From His Mother?
Written on March 24, 2024
Category: Women's Psychology What might stand out, if a woman has been with a man for a little while, is that he is overly focused on his mother. She can find it strange that he is so caught up with her and unable to live his own life. Boundaries: Can Someone Be In A Boundaryless State If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on March 22, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect As someone is a separate individual with their own needs and feelings, they are not always going to want to do what another person wants them to do. During these moments, they will need to make this clear. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Has A Mother-Enmeshed Man's Masculinity Been Knocked Out Of Him?
Written on March 21, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where his life revolves around his mother and he neglects himself, it will be clear that he needs to start implementing boundaries. This is the only way that he will be able to reclaim himself. People Pleasing: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Be A People Pleaser?
Written on March 16, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what might stand out is that they have the tendency to put other people’s needs first. They may see that this takes place without them even thinking about it. Yellowstone: Does Jimmy Go Through An Initiation On Yellowstone?
Written on March 13, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology In the previous articles that I have written about Yellowstone, I haven’t mentioned Jimmy. However, in the beginning, Jimmy works on the ranch and lives in the bunkhouse, but, as time passes, he ends up going to the 6666 ranch to learn how to be a cowboy. Mother-Enmeshed Men: What Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man And His Mother Have In Common?
Written on March 3, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where he spends a lot of time focusing on and doing things for his mother, his own life is going to be neglected. What this comes down to is that he only has so much time and energy. Self-Worth: Can Someone Believe That They Are Worthless If they Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on March 2, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Although someone has inherent worth, it doesn’t mean that they will have a felt sense of their own worth. However, even if they don’t have this sense, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. Child Abuse: Did A Highly Critical Parent Externalise Their Inner Critic?
Written on March 1, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect During someone’s formative years, they may have had at least one parent who was very harsh. If so, it would have been normal for them to be put down by this parent and treated like they were nothing. Self-Rejection: Can Someone Reject Themselves If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on February 28, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone has turned their back on themselves, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. However, if another person were to observe how they behave for a little while, they might soon realise what is going on. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Believe That They Need To Earn The Right To Exist If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on February 26, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What can be normal is for someone to spend most of their time doing things. Therefore, they will rarely if ever take the time to relax and recharge. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Woman See A Mother-Enmeshed Man As The Problem?
Written on February 24, 2024
Category: Women's Psychology If a woman is with a man who is overly focused on his mother and is out of reach emotionally, she is likely to wonder why she is even with him. Ultimately, he won’t have much time for her and even when he is around, he is unlikely to be very present. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Be Disconnected From Himself If He Had An Unavailable Mother?
Written on February 22, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology In general, a man can be out of touch with how he feels and a number of his needs. He is then going to look like a whole human being, but he typically won’t operate like one. Father Wounds: Can A Man Unconsciously Look For A Father Figure If His Father Was Unavailable?
Written on February 20, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even though a man’s childhood will be behind him, it doesn’t mean that he has fully moved on from this stage of his life. A big part of him can be anchored to this stage of his life. Emotional Self: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Lose Touch With Their Emotional Self?
Written on February 19, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may see, if they were to step back and reflect on how they experience life, is that they don’t have a strong connection with their feelings. They could find that, in general, they are not aware of how they feel. Needs: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Lose Touch With Their Needs?
Written on February 19, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What can be normal is for someone to ignore a number of their needs and to focus on others. But, if this is just what is normal, it might not be something that they are consciously aware of. Early Deprivation: Does Someone Need To See Their Depriving Parents Clearly If They Feel Worthless And Unlovable?
Written on February 17, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even if someone feels worthless and unlovable, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. But, if this is not something that they are aware of, what is going on for them is still going to have an impact on their life. Early Deprivation: What Expectations Can Someone Have If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on February 16, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect It is often said that someone shouldn’t have any expectations. One of the reasons that is put forward is that, by having them, they are likely to end up being let down. Relationships: Can Someone Get Over Their Ex By Sleeping With Other People?
Written on February 11, 2024
Category: Relationships If someone has just broken up with their partner, they can be in a bad way. They might have been with them for a number of months or years but, no matter how long it was, they won’t just be able to carry on with their life. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Woman Being Selfish If She Leaves A Mother-Enmeshed Man?
Written on February 9, 2024
Category: Women's Psychology For a little while now, a woman may have been with a man who is unable to be there for her. This can be because he is too focused on taking care of his mother’s needs and doesn’t have much time or energy left for anyone else. Emotional Eating: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Engage In Emotional Eating?
Written on February 7, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on their life, is that they have the tendency to eat when they are emotionally unsettled. This can be something that takes place every now and then. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Woman Struggle To Make A Mother-Enmeshed Man Available?
Written on February 4, 2024
Category: Women's Psychology If a woman is with a man who is overly focused on his mother, he is not going to have much time for her. And, when she is with him, he could generally be mentally somewhere else and emotionally out of reach. Early Deprivation: What Can Happen If Someone Wasn’t Seen During Their Formative Years?
Written on February 2, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone didn’t have at least one parent who was able to see them as a separate individual who had their own needs and feelings, and generally attuned to them and met their needs, they might not be aware of this. Now that they are an adult, they might not be able to remember a great deal about what took place during this stage of their life. Critical Thinking: Has Humanity Been Deceived Into Believing That They Are Just Observers Of Reality?
Written on January 31, 2024
Category: Social Causes Most likely, someone will live in a society that is built on the view that they, along with their fellow citizens, are passive observers of what takes place externally. What is going on inside them, then, won’t influence what is going on outside them. Self-Punishment: Is Kayce From Yellowstone Punishing Himself?
Written on January 27, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology In the article that I wrote about Yellowstone titled, ‘Can Someone Learn About Enmeshment By Watching Yellowstone?’, I briefly spoke about John’s youngest son, Kayce. I said that he was a loose cannon, and, in addition to the drama in his life, he was inches away from being killed or ending up in prison. Mother Wounds: What Can Happen If A Man Had A Depriving Mother?
Written on January 26, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Irrespective of how many years have passed since a man was a boy, it doesn’t mean that he has fully moved on from this stage of his life. This might not be something that he is aware of, though. Past Life: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Be Caught Up In Their Past Lives?
Written on January 25, 2024
Category: Abuse And Neglect For a little while now, someone may have been looking into the different past lives that they have had. They might resonate with one life more than the others or they could feel equally connected to all of them. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause A Woman To Sexualise Herself?
Written on January 22, 2024
Category: Women's Psychology What can be normal is for a woman to wear very revealing clothes, and it might not matter where she is. Now, she could have a figure that not only makes her desirable to a lot of men but a lot of women could both appreciate and want to have the same figure. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Woman Need To Realise That She Lives In A Mirror If She Ends Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men?
Written on January 21, 2024
Category: Women's Psychology For a woman to have been with one man who was caught up in his mother’s world would have been tough, but, to have been with a number of men who were like this will have been even worse. Assuming that she has been in this position more than once, she might have decided to turn her back on this area of her life. Mother Wounds: Can A Man See Some Women As Sexual Objects If He Had An Unavailable Mother?
Written on January 18, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology When a man sees a woman to who he is attracted, it might not typically occur to him that she is a human being who has her own needs, feelings, hopes, fears and insecurities, for instance. Instead, she can purely be seen as an object that can satisfy his sexual needs. Father Wounds: Why Would A Man Believe That He Is Being Controlled By The Matrix?
Written on January 14, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology If a man believes that both he and others are being controlled by something ‘out there’, he is unlikely to be short of support. In his eyes, then, there could be a group of people who operate behind the scenes who are controlling most of humanity. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Be Out Of Touch With His Masculinity If He Had An Abusive Mother?
Written on January 7, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology Even though a man will be made up of both the masculine and the feminine, it doesn’t mean that this will stand out. He can typically come across as though he is only made up of one part. Therapy: Can Someone’s Unmet Developmental Need To Be Cared For Cause Them To Have Therapy?
Written on January 5, 2024
Category: Therapy If someone is struggling mentally and emotionally, they can end up looking for a therapist to work with. They might have been in a bad way for a little while or this might be an experience that is relatively new. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Was A Mother-Enmeshed Mans Mother Too Enmeshed To Allow Him To Separate From Her?
Written on January 4, 2024
Category: Men's Psychology One thing that can plague a man’s mind, if he has come to see that he was unable to attach to his mother, develop a strong sense of self and then break away from her, is why this process didn’t take place. He can feel angry, enraged and deeply betrayed. Brands: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Worship A Brand?
Written on December 24, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect For many, many years, someone may have spent a fair amount of their money on certain or several clothes brands. Assuming that it is one brand, this is then going to be a brand that they greatly value. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Reject His Need To Be With A Woman If His Mother Was Emotionally Unavailable?
Written on December 18, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology In general, a man might be out of touch with his need to be with a woman. Thus, he won’t be aware of his need for emotional closeness and support, affection, or sex. Social Media: Can Someone Use Social Media To Try To Be Loved If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on December 17, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect What can be normal is for someone to spend a fair amount of time using one or several social media sites. This can be somewhere they primarily browse and don’t share a great deal about themselves. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have The Need To Keep Women At A Distance If He Had A Neglectful Mother?
Written on December 3, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Although a man can need to keep women at bay, it doesn’t mean that he will be consciously aware of this. As a result, it can seem as though someone or something ‘out there’ is simply holding him back. Struggle: Can Early Deprivation Give Someone The Need To Struggle?
Written on November 27, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to step back and reflect on their life, what they might see is that just about every area of their life is one big battle. Due to this, they will be used to putting in a lot of effort while getting very little in return. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Realise That He Is Not His Mothers Parent?
Written on November 25, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Unless a man is working, he could be doing something for his mother. And, even if he is not doing something for her, he could spend a lot of time thinking about her and what he should be doing for her. False Self: Can Someone Have The Need To Hide Themselves If They Had A Highly Critical Parent?
Written on November 24, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect What can be normal is for someone to hide how they feel and a number of their needs. Consequently, when they are around others, they are going to typically put on an act and hide who they are. Critical Thinking: Is Humanity Being Victimised By Their Shadow?
Written on November 22, 2023
Category: Social Causes If the average person was asked to share their opinion in regards to why the world is the way that it is, they might say that it’s because of the people that are in power. Therefore, if these people were dealt with in one way or another, the world would be different. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have The Need To Hide His Feelings If He Had A Critical Mother?
Written on November 19, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What can be normal is for a man to hide how he feels and to make out that he is fine. It could go further than this, though, as he could typically be unaware of how he feels and not have a strong connection with his part of him. Needs: Why Would A Parent Cause Their Child To Lose Touch With Their Needs?
Written on November 14, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Now that someone is an adult, they could typically ignore a number of their needs. But, if this is just what is normal, they might not be aware of this. Mother Wounds: Did A Mothers Depriving Childhood Cause Her To Reject Her Child?
Written on November 14, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone has the right to be here and deserves to exist, it doesn’t mean that they will realise this. They can have this sense that they don’t have the right to be here and to exist. Mother Wounds: Did An Abusive Mothers Childhood Cause Her To See Her Child As A Burden?
Written on November 13, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to look back at their early years, what might stand out is that this wasn’t a time when they were generally loved and cherished. Instead, they could see that this was a time when they were typically treated like they were nothing. Mother Wounds: Did An Abusive Mothers Childhood Stop Her From Being Able To Love?
Written on November 10, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect During someone’s early years, they may have had a mother wasn’t very warm and was often very cruel. She would then have been their mother but based on how she often behaved, it would have been as though she was their enemy. Mother Wounds: Why Would A Man Have Had A Mother Who Wasn’t Nurturing?
Written on November 8, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What a man may have come to realise, as the years have passed, is that his mother wasn’t very warm when he was growing up. She would then have been his mother but she wouldn’t have been very motherly. Repressed Pain: Can Someone Feel Like They Have Regressed When They Reconnect To Their Repressed Pain?
Written on November 6, 2023
Category: Self Realisation If someone was greatly deprived during their formative years, they are likely to be carrying a lot of pain and a number of unmet developmental needs. This is, of course, assuming that they haven’t started to work through any of this pain. Child Abuse: Can Someone Live In Their Head If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on October 28, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect In the same way that someone can live in a building that has many levels and spend most of their time on the top floor, they can also inhabit a body and spend most of their time up top. As a result of this, they will generally be unaware of what is taking place in their body. Emotional Regulation: Does Someone Need To Develop The Ability To Regulate Their Emotions If They Are Out Of Control?
Written on October 27, 2023
Category: Emotional Intelligence What someone could see, if they were to reflect on their life, is that their inability to handle their emotions is having a negative on their life. They could also see that this is nothing new as they have been this way for as long as they can remember. Relationships: Can Relationships Take On A Symbolic Meaning If Someone Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on September 30, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to look back on the relationships that they have been in, they could experience a fair amount of anger and frustration. As opposed to this being a time when they will feel good, then, it will be a time when they feel bad. Success: Can Success Take On A Symbolic Meaning If Someone Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on September 29, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Right now, someone could have a strong need to be successful. In fact, this could be something that they have wanted for as long as they can remember. Love: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Believe That They Need To Be Perfect To Be Loved?
Written on September 24, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Deep down, someone can believe that they will only be loved if they are perfect. Naturally, if they are in this position, it is going to be more or less impossible for them to be loved by others. Disgust: Can Someone Carry A Lot Of Disgust If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on September 18, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to take a step back and reflect on their life, what might end up standing out is that they often experience a sense of disgust. When this takes place, they will be around something or someone that causes them to be repulsed and they could even feel sick. Early Deprivation: Can It Be Like Waking Up From A Coma When Someone Reconnects To Their Unmet Developmental Needs?
Written on September 10, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Deep down, in their unconscious mind, someone can carry numerous unmet developmental needs. But, because they are outside of their conscious awareness, this won’t be something that they are aware of. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Abandonment If Their Parents’ Had An Unstable Relationship?
Written on August 30, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to take a step back and reflect on their life, what might end up standing out is that they have a strong fear of being left. So, they can believe that their friends are going to leave them and perhaps their partner, if they have one. Mental Strength: Can Repressed Pain Undermine Someone’s Mental Strength?
Written on August 12, 2023
Category: Self Realisation Nowadays, a lot is often said about having the ‘right mindset’ and being mentally strong. By having the right mindset and being mentally strong, someone will be more likely to achieve their goals and to handle the challenges that come their way. Inner Critic: Can Someone’s Unmet Developmental Need To Be Loved Fuel Their Critical Inner Voice?
Written on August 7, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone’s inner world was a climate, it might be somewhere that is typically extremely cold. The reason for this is that they might rarely talk to themselves in a kind manner and they could often experience ‘negative’ feelings. Grieving: Is Grieving An Important Part Of Being Able To Embrace Life?
Written on July 29, 2023
Category: Emotional Intelligence Experiencing loss is part of the human experience but that doesn’t mean that someone will grieve after they have experienced a loss. As a result of this, they can do their best to carry on as normal. Intimacy: Can Developmental Trauma Make It Hard For Someone To Show Up In A Relationship?
Written on December 19, 2021
Category: Relationships What someone may find, if they were to end up in a relationship, is that it is far harder than they expected it to be. There will then be what they thought it would be like and what their experience is actually like. |
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