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Written on December , 2023
Category: Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Passive?
Written on December 9, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a woman is with a man who is overly focused on his mother’s needs and neglects himself, she is likely to wonder why he doesn’t take care of his needs. Furthermore, she is likely to wonder why he doesn’t stand up to his mother and make it clear that he is not responsible for her. Happiness: Is It Right For Someone To Be Happy When There Is So Much Suffering In The World?
Written on December 5, 2023
Category: Happiness As a result of what is taking place in the Middle East and Ukraine, someone can often feel down and depressed. Due to this, they might not do a number of the things that they used to do before. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have The Need To Keep Women At A Distance If He Had A Neglectful Mother?
Written on December 3, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Although a man can need to keep women at bay, it doesn’t mean that he will be consciously aware of this. As a result, it can seem as though someone or something ‘out there’ is simply holding him back. Human Contact: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Need For Human Contact?
Written on November 28, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect What can be normal is for someone to spend a lot of time by themselves, having very little interest in being around others. This could be how they have been for as long as they can remember. Struggle: Can Early Deprivation Give Someone The Need To Struggle?
Written on November 27, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to step back and reflect on their life, what they might see is that just about every area of their life is one big battle. Due to this, they will be used to putting in a lot of effort while getting very little in return. Mother Wounds: Why Would An Abusive Mother Have Had A Child?
Written on November 26, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect One thing that someone could wonder, if they had a mother who was typically not very nurturing, is why she even had a child or perhaps children. But, based on how she generally behaved, this is to be expected. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Realise That He Is Not His Mothers Parent?
Written on November 25, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Unless a man is working, he could be doing something for his mother. And, even if he is not doing something for her, he could spend a lot of time thinking about her and what he should be doing for her. Mother-Enmeshed Men: What Does A Woman Need To Do If She Ends Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men?
Written on November 25, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology After having been up with a number of men who were focused on their mothers and were not available, a woman can be angry and frustrated. But, as she will have given a lot and received very little, this is not a surprise. Law Of Resonance: Can Someone Use The Law Of Resonance To Attract What They Desire?
Written on November 24, 2023
Category: Self Realisation If someone were to think about something that they wanted to attain or experience, they could soon think about what it is that they need to do to achieve their goal. So, a number of steps could enter their mind, and, before long, they could take the first step. False Self: Can Someone Have The Need To Hide Themselves If They Had A Highly Critical Parent?
Written on November 24, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect What can be normal is for someone to hide how they feel and a number of their needs. Consequently, when they are around others, they are going to typically put on an act and hide who they are. Child Abuse: Can Someone Blame Themselves If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on November 23, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Based on how someone experiences life, it can be as though they have done something that is extremely bad. The reason for this is that they could have the tendency to feel bad about themselves. Critical Thinking: Is Humanity Being Victimised By Their Shadow?
Written on November 22, 2023
Category: Social Causes If the average person was asked to share their opinion in regards to why the world is the way that it is, they might say that it’s because of the people that are in power. Therefore, if these people were dealt with in one way or another, the world would be different. Child Abuse: Why Wouldn’t Someone Be Able To Accept That They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on November 22, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone was mistreated during their formative years, it doesn’t mean that they will be able to acknowledge this. This can mean that they won’t talk about what happened or they could often talk about some of the things that happened. Relationships: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Have An Open Relationship?
Written on November 21, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Nowadays, there is less pressure on people to have a traditional relationship and even to get married. Thanks to this, people have far more freedom to express themselves and experience something that is actually right for them. Irrational Thoughts: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Have ‘Irrational’ Thoughts?
Written on November 20, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect For a little while, someone may have experienced thoughts that are having a negative effect on their wellbeing. Along with these thoughts, there can be the feelings that also arise. False Self: Can Someone Create An Identity In Order To Meet Their Unmet Developmental Needs?
Written on November 19, 2023
Category: Self Realisation In the same way that someone can more or less always wear the same outfit, they can also more or less always behave in the same way. And, as part of how they behave, they can also typically wear the same type of clothes. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have The Need To Hide His Feelings If He Had A Critical Mother?
Written on November 19, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What can be normal is for a man to hide how he feels and to make out that he is fine. It could go further than this, though, as he could typically be unaware of how he feels and not have a strong connection with his part of him. Father Wounds: Did A Father’s Depriving Childhood Stop Him From Being Able To Protect His Son?
Written on November 18, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Although a man’s childhood is well and truly over, it doesn’t mean that he will generally feel like a strong and capable adult. Instead, he can generally feel low and be full of doubt, and be anxious and fearful. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Woman Get Back With A Mother-Enmeshed Man?
Written on November 17, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology After having been with a man who was entangled with his mother, for however long, a woman could be greatly relieved that she has now cut her ties with him. One of the reasons for this is that she could be exhausted and no longer have the desire or energy to experience life in this way. Relationships: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Attach To The Wrong People?
Written on November 16, 2023 Category: Abuse And Neglect What might soon stand out, if someone were to step back and reflect, is that they have the tendency to end up with people who are not right for them. This could be something that has happened so often that they question if they want to be with another person. Relationships: Why Would Someone Be Unable To Accept That Their Partner Is Unavailable?
Written on November 15, 2023
Category: Relationships At this point in time, someone could be in a relationship with someone who is not available. So, they might not be able to emotionally connect with them and they might not spend much time with them either. Needs: Why Would A Parent Cause Their Child To Lose Touch With Their Needs?
Written on November 14, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Now that someone is an adult, they could typically ignore a number of their needs. But, if this is just what is normal, they might not be aware of this. Mother Wounds: Did A Mothers Depriving Childhood Cause Her To Reject Her Child?
Written on November 14, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone has the right to be here and deserves to exist, it doesn’t mean that they will realise this. They can have this sense that they don’t have the right to be here and to exist. Mother Wounds: Did An Abusive Mothers Childhood Cause Her To See Her Child As A Burden?
Written on November 13, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone were to look back at their early years, what might stand out is that this wasn’t a time when they were generally loved and cherished. Instead, they could see that this was a time when they were typically treated like they were nothing. Father Wounds: Can A Woman Be Attracted To Men Who Are Unavailable If She Had An Unavailable Father?
Written on November 12, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology What a woman may find, if she was to take a step back and reflect on her life, is that she continually attracts men who are not available. This could be something that has taken place for as long as she can remember. Sleep Problems: Why Would Someone Have Trouble Sleeping?
Written on November 12, 2023
Category: Social Causes Nowadays, it is not uncommon for someone to have difficulty falling asleep. Furthermore, they could know at least one person who has the same challenge. True Self: Can Someone Be Out Of Touch With Their Need To Express Themselves If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on November 11, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Based on how someone typically behaves, it can be as though they are wearing a straight jacket and don’t have a voice. The reason for this is that it can be normal for them to go along with what others want and not to speak up when they need to. Mother Wounds: Did An Abusive Mothers Childhood Stop Her From Being Able To Love?
Written on November 10, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect During someone’s early years, they may have had a mother wasn’t very warm and was often very cruel. She would then have been their mother but based on how she often behaved, it would have been as though she was their enemy. Empty: Can Someone Feel Empty If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on November 9, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to take a step back and reflect on the feelings that they experience, what could soon stand out is that they often have moments when they feel as though something is missing. They will then look whole and complete but they will seldom feel whole and complete. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Be Out Of Touch With His Desire To Love If He Had An Unavailable Mother?
Written on November 9, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What can be normal is for a man to only have the desire to share his body with a woman, nothing more nothing less. Then again, he might have the need to share his mind with her, but that could be about it. Mother Wounds: Why Would A Man Have Had A Mother Who Wasn’t Nurturing?
Written on November 8, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What a man may have come to realise, as the years have passed, is that his mother wasn’t very warm when he was growing up. She would then have been his mother but she wouldn’t have been very motherly. Stability: Can Someone Have A Strong Need For Stability If They Experienced Developmental Trauma?
Written on November 8, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect In general, someone can live a life that seldom if ever changes. So, they might have lived in the same area, had the same job, and had the same friends for most of their life. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Be Drawn To Women Who Are Unavailable If He Had An Unavailable Mother?
Written on November 7, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Even though a man can have the desire to be with a woman who is available, he might not believe that this is possible. The reason for this is that he may have been with a number of women who were not available. Repressed Pain: Can Someone Feel Like They Have Regressed When They Reconnect To Their Repressed Pain?
Written on November 6, 2023
Category: Self Realisation If someone was greatly deprived during their formative years, they are likely to be carrying a lot of pain and a number of unmet developmental needs. This is, of course, assuming that they haven’t started to work through any of this pain. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Be Addicted To Porn?
Written on November 4, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where practically his whole life revolves around his mother, it is likely to show that he doesn’t feel comfortable with his own needs. Along with this, he is unlikely to even be in touch with his own needs. Therapy: Can Someone Be Looking For A Mother/Father Figure When They Have Therapy?
Written on November 3, 2023
Category: Therapy After not being in a good way for however long, someone could come to the conclusion that they need help. Due to this, they could end up looking for a therapist locally or online. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Put Women On A Pedestal If He Had An Emotionally Unavailable Mother?
Written on November 2, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Even though women are imperfect human beings, not gods, it doesn’t mean that a man will realise this. In general, he could have the tendency to treat women as though they are from another realm. Child Abuse: Why Wouldn’t An Abusive Parent Be Able To Acknowledge The Hurt That They Caused?
Written on November 1, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect One thing that someone is going to carry, if they were mistreated during their early years, is a lot of hurt. To handle what was going on, this hurt would have had to be pushed out of their conscious awareness and stored deep in their brain and body. Father Wounds: Can A Woman Have A Strong Need To Be Protected If She Had An Abusive Father?
Written on November 1, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology Over the years, a woman may have been with a number of men who were abusive. However, although she would have felt deeply unsafe around them as time passed, she probably felt radically different around them at the beginning. Mother Wounds: Can A Woman Reject Her Feminine Side If She Had An Abusive Mother?
Written on October 31, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology In the same way that a man won’t just have a masculine element, a woman also won’t just have a feminine element. Just as with a man then, her appearance will be an expression of one element but when it comes to her inner world, she will contain both elements. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Woman Be Enmeshed To Her Father If She Attracts Mother-Enmeshed Men?
Written on October 31, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology If a woman has been with a number of men who were focused on their mother and, thus, were unavailable, she is likely to question if this area of her life will ever change. But, if she has been in this position on more than one occasion, this is to be expected. Father Wounds: Can A Mother Use Her Sons Father To Emasculate Him?
Written on October 30, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in touch with his power, he will be able to be assertive, take action, and to stand up for himself. This will show that he has a strong connection with his body as this is where his power will be found. Father Wounds: Can A Woman Hate Men If She Had An Abusive Father?
Written on October 29, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology If a woman hates men, this can be something that is very much part of her personality or it might not be. When it comes to the former, she could spend a lot of time thinking about how bad men are and having numerous conversations with other women about it. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Believe That Women Are A Threat To His Survival If He Had An Abusive Mother?
Written on October 28, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Even if a man wants to develop a loving and harmonious relationship with a woman, it doesn’t mean that he has been able to make much progress. He could be in a position where he hasn’t been able to find a woman who is suitable. Child Abuse: Can Someone Live In Their Head If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on October 28, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect In the same way that someone can live in a building that has many levels and spend most of their time on the top floor, they can also inhabit a body and spend most of their time up top. As a result of this, they will generally be unaware of what is taking place in their body. Mother Wounds: Can A Mother Emasculate Her Son If She Had An Abusive Father?
Written on October 27, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man was to think about how his mother treated him during his formative years, he could be filled with gratitude. The reason for this is that this is likely to have been a time when he was loved and cherished by her. Emotional Regulation: Does Someone Need To Develop The Ability To Regulate Their Emotions If They Are Out Of Control?
Written on October 27, 2023
Category: Emotional Intelligence What someone could see, if they were to reflect on their life, is that their inability to handle their emotions is having a negative on their life. They could also see that this is nothing new as they have been this way for as long as they can remember. Child Abuse: Did An Abusive Parent Blame Their Child For What Their Abusive Parent Did To Them?
Written on October 26, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone could struggle to get their head around, if they were abused as a child, is why their parent treated them in this way. The person who was supposed to love and cherish them wouldn’t have done so. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mother Use Him To Meet Some Her Unmet Developmental Needs?
Written on October 25, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where he is overly focused on his mother and is not there for himself, it will be clear that something is not right. This is based on the fact that he is not on this earth to be an extension of anyone else – he is here to live his own life. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Man Still Be Enmeshed With His Mother If He Doesn’t Speak To Her?
Written on October 24, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If someone was to think about a mother-enmeshed man, what is likely to come to mind is a man who is overly focused on his mother. This will make complete sense as if he is entangled with her, his life is surely going to revolve around her. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Woman’s Unmet Developmental Needs Causing Her To End Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men?
Written on October 23, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology What a woman is likely to be aware of, if she is with a man who is overly focused on his mother and is not available, is that a number of her needs are not being met. In fact, she could struggle to think of one need that is being met. Child Abuse: Is It A Form Of Indirect Revenge When A Parent Abuses Their Child?
Written on October 22, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to come to see that they were mistreated during their formative years, they could find it hard to get their head around what happened. But, as their own parent or parents will have been the ones who didn’t treat them well, this is not going to be much of a surprise. Self-Love: Can Someone Love Themselves Conditionally If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on October 21, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to take a step back and reflect on their life, what they may find is that they are often hard on themselves. They are then only going to be kind and loving to themselves from time to time. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can Repression Stop A Woman From Being Able To See Why She Ends Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men?
Written on October 20, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology If a woman is with a man who is overly focused on his mother and is not available, and she has been in this position before, she could be well and truly fed up. But, as this won’t be the first time that she has been in this position, it is to be expected. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Woman Need To See Mother-Enmeshed Men As Symbolic Representations Of What She Needs To Heal?
Written on October 19, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology Right now, a woman can be with a man who is anything but available. Yet, even though he is this way now, he might not have been this way at the beginning and may have created the impression that he was available. Needs: Can Someone Be Out Of Touch With Their Needs If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on October 18, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone is an interdependent human being who has needs, it doesn’t mean that they will act like one. In general, they could act as though they are completely independent and don’t have any needs. Emotional Collapse: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Be In An Emotionally Collapsed State?
Written on October 17, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was able to reflect on how they typically feel, they could find that they often feel helpless and hopeless. By being this way, they are likely to spend a lot of time feeling down and even depressed. Being Seen: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Being Seen If They Had A Critical Parent?
Written on October 16, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may find if they were to take a step back and reflect on their life, is that they often feel ignored and even invisible. This can be how they feel when they are with family friends and at work. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is Pain Stopping A Mother-Enmeshed Man From Facing Reality?
Written on October , 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where his life revolves around his mother and he is neglecting himself but he is unable to accept this, it is not going to be possible for him to change his life. His life will continue to go in the same direction and he will suffer as a result. Mother Enmeshed Men: Does A Woman Need To Explore Her Unconscious Mind If She Ends Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men?
Written on October 15, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology Over the years, a woman may have been with a number of men who were too focused on their mothers. There is even the chance that she is currently with a man who is like this. Imagination: Why Would Someone Have The Tendency To Imagine ‘Negative’ Scenarios?
Written on October 14, 2023
Category: Self Realisation If someone was to observe their thoughts for a little while, they can find that they often think about bad things happening in the future. Consequently, they are likely to experience a fair amount of fear and anxiety. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Try To Make Cold Women Warm If He Had An Emotionally Unavailable Mother?
Written on October 13, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Over the years, a man may have been with a number of women who lacked warmth. Thanks to the experiences that he has had, he could believe that all women are the same. Mother Wounds: Can Women Take On A Symbolic Meaning If A Man Had A Mother Who Was Emotionally Unavailable?
Written on October 10, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology At this point in time, a man can be in a position where he more or less goes from one woman to another. When it comes to how long he spends with each woman, it can depend on a number of factors. Vulnerability: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Being Vulnerable If They Had A Highly Critical Parent?
Written on October 9, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone is not a superhero who is unable to be affected by life, they can come across as though this is the case. As a result of this, it can be as though they are unaffected by life. Early Attachment: What Can Happen If Someone Was Unable To Attach To Their Parents?
Written on October 8, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect After someone was born, it simply wasn’t possible for them to break away from their mother after a number of weeks had passed and to live their own life. Unlike a rabbit, for instance, they needed to be able to attach to their mother, receive the right attunement and love and gradually develop a strong sense of self. Disconnected: Can Someone Only Listen To Their Needs When They Are Ill If They Are In A Disconnected State?
Written on October 7, 2023
Category: Self Realisation Although someone has needs that they need to pay attention to in order to live a fulfilling life, they can overlook a number of their needs. In fact, they might not even be aware of a number of their needs. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Attempt Suicide?
Written on October 2, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect From the outside, someone can appear to be doing fine or at the very least, not in a bad way mentally and emotionally. But, beyond the impression that they typically create around others, can be someone who is not in a good way. Child Abuse: Can An Abusive Parent Be Too Emotionally Insecure To Take Responsibility For How They Behaved?
Written on October 1, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone has come to see that they were mistreated during their formative years, they might have the need to speak to the parent or parents who harmed them. But, if they have this need and take the next step, it doesn’t mean that they will get very far. Relationships: Can Relationships Take On A Symbolic Meaning If Someone Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on September 30, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to look back on the relationships that they have been in, they could experience a fair amount of anger and frustration. As opposed to this being a time when they will feel good, then, it will be a time when they feel bad. Success: Can Success Take On A Symbolic Meaning If Someone Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on September 29, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Right now, someone could have a strong need to be successful. In fact, this could be something that they have wanted for as long as they can remember. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Mans Sense Of Self Underdeveloped?
Written on September 27, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What is clear is that in order for a man to both have and sustain a life that is fulfilling, he will need to be there for himself and take care of his needs. If this doesn’t take place, he will live a half-life at best and he won’t have much of a life at worst. Father Wounds: Can A Man Believe That He Is Being Controlled By The Matrix If He Had An Abusive Father?
Written on September 25, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man was mistreated by his father during his formative years, it doesn’t mean that he will be aware of this. The reason for this is that his brain may have blocked out most if not all of what took place. Love: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Believe That They Need To Be Perfect To Be Loved?
Written on September 24, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Deep down, someone can believe that they will only be loved if they are perfect. Naturally, if they are in this position, it is going to be more or less impossible for them to be loved by others. Breakups: Can It Be Harder For A Man To Handle A Breakup If His Mother Was Emotionally Unavailable?
Written on September 23, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Not too long ago, a man may have experienced a breakup. Then again, this might not be something that took place recently, with his relationship having ended a number of months or years ago. False Self: What Can Happen If Someone Was Brought Up To Be An Extension Of Their Parent?
Written on September 22, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone is a separate human being, who has their own needs and feelings and life to lead, it doesn’t mean that they will act like one. What can be normal is for them to focus on others and to do what they can to please them. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Wouldn’t A Mother-Enmeshed Man Be Able To Face Reality?
Written on September 21, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What can be hard for someone to comprehend is why a man wouldn’t be able to see that he is focused on his mother and is neglecting himself. Now, the impact that his behaviour has on them is likely to depend on the type of relationship that they have with him. Sense Of Safety: Can Child Abuse Stop Someone From Being Able To Inhabit Their Body?
Written on September 20, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect In order for someone to be able to freely express themselves, they will need to feel safe enough to do so. So, if they don’t feel safe, they are likely to have the need to hide who they are and please others. Disgust: Can Someone Carry A Lot Of Disgust If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on September 18, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to take a step back and reflect on their life, what might end up standing out is that they often experience a sense of disgust. When this takes place, they will be around something or someone that causes them to be repulsed and they could even feel sick. Fight Instinct: Can Someone Be Out Of Touch With Their Fight Instinct If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on September 17, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect At times, it will be necessary for someone to relax and recharge, and, at other times, it will e necessary for them to take action and get things done. The fire that is inside them won’t be activated when they are relaxed and it will be when they are not. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Get Back Into His Body?
Written on September 16, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Now, although a man can’t leave his body and get into another person’s body, what he can do is mentally leave his body and focus on another person. When this takes place, he won’t have a strong connection with what is going on inside him but he will be aware of what is going on inside another. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Believe That His Mothers Needs Are His Own?
Written on September 15, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where he spends a lot of his time and energy doing things for his mother, he is going to neglect his own needs. The reason for this is that there is only one of him. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Struggle With Jealousy If They Experienced Early Deprivation?
Written on September 13, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect What someone may come to see, if they were to take a step back and reflect on their life, is that they have the tendency to feel jealous. But, this might not be something that they experience from time to time; no, it could be something that is a regular occurrence. False Self: Can Early Deprivation Give Someone A Strong Need To Adapt?
Written on September 11, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Having the ability to adapt is important; after all, there are going to be times when something won’t go to plan. During a moment like this, someone will need to be able to change their approach. Early Deprivation: Can It Be Like Waking Up From A Coma When Someone Reconnects To Their Unmet Developmental Needs?
Written on September 10, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Deep down, in their unconscious mind, someone can carry numerous unmet developmental needs. But, because they are outside of their conscious awareness, this won’t be something that they are aware of. Early Deprivation: Can A Man Be Out Of Touch With His Sensitive Side If He Was Abused During His Early Years?
Written on September 9, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Based on how a man typically comes across, it can be as if he only has a masculine aspect. In other words, he can come across as emotionless, hard and as though nothing fazes him. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is It A Good Idea For A Mother-Enmeshed Man To Stay Single?
Written on September 8, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where he was in a relationship and this relationship largely came to an end because he was too focused on his mother, he could now be looking into what he can do to change his life. This relationship may have finished a few weeks ago or might have ended a number of months ago. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Believe That He Is Not Enough For A Woman If He Had A Critical Mother?
Written on September 7, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man was to take a step back and reflect on how he behaves, he could find that he spends a lot of time doing things so that he can be enough. He could find that this doesn’t relate to being enough in general, it relates to being enough for a woman. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Wasn’t A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Father There For Him?
Written on September 5, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology After a man has come to see that he is focused on his mother and is abandoning himself in the process, he could experience a fair amount of anger and frustration. Nonetheless, as his life is not going to be very fulfilling, it is to be expected that he would feel this way. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Be Disconnected From Themselves?
Written on September 2, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect What can be normal is for someone to be out of touch with how they feel and a number of their needs. By being this way, they are going to neglect themselves and this can mean that they will often feel drained. Mother Wounds: What Can Happen If A Man Wasn’t Seen By His Mother During His Developmental Years?
Written on September 1, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology A man might not remember a great deal about what his early years were like but that doesn’t mean that he will have truly moved on from this stage of his life. However, if this stage of his life has more or less been blocked out by his brain, he won’t be able to realise this. Early Deprivation: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Abandonment If Their Parents’ Had An Unstable Relationship?
Written on August 30, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was to take a step back and reflect on their life, what might end up standing out is that they have a strong fear of being left. So, they can believe that their friends are going to leave them and perhaps their partner, if they have one. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can It Be Harder For A Mother-Enmeshed Man When His Father Passes On?
Written on August 29, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is caught up in his mother’s world, he might not be the only one in this position as his father could also be in the same position. Assuming that this is so, there will be what he does for his mother and what his father does for her. Child Abuse: Can Someone Be Out Of Touch With Their Need To Love If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on August 28, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect It could be said that it is part of the human experience to want to not only be loved but to also love. But, although this is the case, it doesn’t mean that someone will be in touch with both of these needs. Mother-Enmeshed Man: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Believe That He Would Die If He separated From His Mother?
Written on August 28, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What is clear is that a man can only have one life; he can’t have two or more lives. Therefore, if he spends a lot of time doing things for his mother, it is naturally going to have a negative impact on his ability to have a life that is fulfilling. Critical Thinking: Is What Is Taking Place In The World A Reflection Of What Is Held Inside The Collective Consciousness?
Written on August 26, 2023
Category: Social Causes A little while ago, there were lockdowns in place that prevented millions of people from being able to carry on as normal. The main purpose of these lockdowns was said to have been to try to stop the virus from spreading. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need to Emotionally Separate From His Mother In Order To Have Boundaries?
Written on August 22, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Even though a man is a separate human being with his own needs and feelings and life to lead, it doesn’t mean that he will act like one. Instead, what can be normal is for him to act as if he is an extension of his mother. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Sexualise Themselves?
Written on August 21, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect After getting to the stage where they can see that they are typically only appreciated for their looks, they could end up coming to see that this is largely due to how they present themselves. Although they will have many different sides to them, they might have primarily focused on one side. Enmeshed Family: Can Someone Lack Boundaries If They Grew Up In An Enmeshed Family?
Written on August 20, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect After feeling pretty exhausted and no longer having the energy to behave as they normally would, someone could think about how they find it hard to say no. What can be normal is for them to spend a lot of time doing things that they would rather not do. Mother Wounds: Can A Man Feel Guilty For Being Happy If He Grew Up With A Depressed Mother?
Written on August 19, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology What a man may find, if he was to step back and reflect on his life, is that he finds it hard to experience both ‘positive’ feelings and good things for very long. Therefore, whenever he has felt good, it might not have been long before his mood changed. Mother Wounds: Is A Narcissistic Mother Developmentally Stunted?
Written on August 18, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone has been able to get to the stage where they can see that how their mother behaved during their formative years was anything but healthy, they could wonder why she was this way. But that might not be all there is to it, though, as their mother might not be much different now that they are an adult. Early Deprivation: What Can Happen If Someone Was Treated Like An Object During Their Developmental Years?
Written on August 16, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone is a valuable human being, who has the right to say no and live their own life, it doesn’t mean that they will know this at the core of their being. Consequently, they can be accustomed to being treated badly and putting up with things that don’t serve them, saying yes to things that they don’t want to do and pleasing others. True Self: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone’s True Self To Be Murdered?
Written on August 15, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect When it comes to how someone behaves, it might generally be a reflection of their true self. Then again, it might generally be a reflection of their false self. Father Wounds: Did A Man’s Abusive Father Have A Fear Of Being Abandoned?
Written on August 14, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology During a man’s developmental years, he may have not only had a mother who was abusive, but his father may have also been abusive. In this case, both of his parents would have played a part in undermining him. Mental Strength: Can Repressed Pain Undermine Someone’s Mental Strength?
Written on August 12, 2023
Category: Self Realisation Nowadays, a lot is often said about having the ‘right mindset’ and being mentally strong. By having the right mindset and being mentally strong, someone will be more likely to achieve their goals and to handle the challenges that come their way. Relationships: Will A Man Commit When He Finds The ‘Right’ Woman?
Written on August 11, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology At this point in time, a man could believe that, once he finds the right woman, he will settle down. If so, this will mean that he is either not in a relationship, or he is simply having casual encounters. Inner Critic: Can Someone’s Unmet Developmental Need To Be Loved Fuel Their Critical Inner Voice?
Written on August 7, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone’s inner world was a climate, it might be somewhere that is typically extremely cold. The reason for this is that they might rarely talk to themselves in a kind manner and they could often experience ‘negative’ feelings. Enmeshed Family: What Can Happen If Someone Grew Up In An Enmeshed Family?
Written on August 5, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Even though someone is a separate being that has their own needs and feelings, based on how they typically behave, it can be as though they are merely an extension of others. They are then going to be focused on other people’s needs. Inner Critic: Can Someone Have A Critical Inner Voice If They Had A Critical Parent?
Written on August 1, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect If someone was able to record how they talk to themselves and then play it back through speakers, they could find that they are typically not very kind to themselves. By having externalised what is going on for them internally, it will have been easier for them to see what is going on. Shadow Side: Does Someone Incarnate With A Shadow Side?
Written on July 31, 2023
Category: Self Realisation There are those who had a childhood that was very nurturing and then there are those that didn’t. Along with this, there are those that had a childhood that was in the middle; neither very nurturing nor overly depriving. False Self: Why Would A Man Have The Need To Come Across As Extremely Masculine?
Written on July 30, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Based on how a man comes across, he might appear to have more in common with a superhero than a human being. The reason for this is that he might not just be somewhat masculine, he could be exceptionally masculine. Grieving: Is Grieving An Important Part Of Being Able To Embrace Life?
Written on July 29, 2023
Category: Emotional Intelligence Experiencing loss is part of the human experience but that doesn’t mean that someone will grieve after they have experienced a loss. As a result of this, they can do their best to carry on as normal. Boundaries: Can Someone Lack Boundaries If They Were Treated Like An Object During Their Early Years?
Written on July 23, 2023
Category: Boundaries As someone is a separate individual, with their own needs and feelings, it is not going to be possible for them to always say yes and to do what another person wants or suggests. If they were merely an extension of others, this wouldn’t be the case. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Woman Focus On A Mother-Enmeshed Man To Avoid Herself?
Written on July 23, 2023
Category: Women's Psychology After having been with a man who is overly focused on his mother for however long, a woman could have spent a fair amount of time trying to understand why he is the way that he is. This could be something that has been going on for a number of weeks, months or even years. Relationships: Can A Relationship Allow Someone To Meet Their ‘Shadow?’
Written on July 21, 2023
Category: Relationships When someone has met another person who they are attracted to and is getting to know them, they can have only good things to say about them. Not only this, but they can want to spend a lot of time with them. Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause A Man To Be Addicted To Porn?
Written on July 16, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology At this point in time, a man could be in a position where practically his whole life revolves around viewing porn. Therefore, if he is not working or spending time with friends, for instance, he could be viewing it. Developmental Trauma: Can Someone Have A Fear Of Falling Apart If They Experienced Developmental Trauma?
Written on July 13, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect Based on how someone typically comes across, they can appear to be a together human being. However, beyond the impression that they create can be someone who doesn’t have firm foundations. Relationships: Can It Be Hard For Someone To Bond With Others If They Were Abused As A Child?
Written on July 12, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect As someone is an interdependent human being, it means that they are not their own island. As a result of this, they are not on this earth to do everything by themselves and to always be in their company. Mother Wounds: Can A Fear Of Abandonment Cause A Man To Be A ‘Nice Guy’ Around Women?
Written on July 10, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology When a man is around a woman, he could typically lose himself. In other words, he won’t be in touch with and express his true self; no, he will end up putting on an act. Mother Wounds: Can A Fear Of Abandonment Cause A Man To Be A ‘Nice Guy’?
Written on July 7, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology In general, a man could be easy-going, needless and do his best to please others. He is then rarely if ever going to assert himself, express his needs or disagree with what another person says. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Believe That He Is Betraying His Ex If He Moves On?
Written on July 4, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology Now that a man is no longer in a relationship, he will be free to meet other women and take things further. However, although this will be so, it doesn’t mean that he will allow himself to do this. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man Have To Become Who His Mother Wanted Him To Be?
Written on June 26, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man is in a position where his life revolves around his mother, he is going to be like her servant. As opposed to being a separate being who has his own needs and feelings, he will be nothing more than an extension of her. Emotionally Shut Down: Can Someone Be Unaffected By Experiences If They Are Emotionally Shut Down?
Written on June 11, 2023
Category: Emotional Intelligence Now that someone is an adult, they will have had many different experiences since they were a child. But, even though this is the case, it doesn’t mean that they will feel a lot different. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Has A Mother Enmeshed-Man Abandoned Himself?
Written on June 9, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology If a man has the tendency to be there for his mother, it is going to mean that he will also have the tendency to overlook a number of his own needs. Quite simply, it is not going to be possible for him to be there for both his mother and himself. Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Find It Hard To Say No To His Mother?
Written on May 30, 2023
Category: Men's Psychology It has been said that someone’s yes will only mean something if they also have the ability to say no. The reason for this is if they are unable to say no, they will say yes out of their need to please another person. Mother Wounds: Can Mothers Day Be Hard For Someone If They Had An Abusive Mother?
Written on May 16, 2023
Category: Abuse And Neglect For some people, Mother’s Day is a day when they can show gratitude towards their mother for all the things that she has done for them and continues to do for them. This day is then going to be a day of celebration and a special day. Intimacy: Can Developmental Trauma Make It Hard For Someone To Show Up In A Relationship?
Written on December 19, 2021
Category: Relationships What someone may find, if they were to end up in a relationship, is that it is far harder than they expected it to be. There will then be what they thought it would be like and what their experience is actually like. |
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