The American presidential election has now come to an end, and this has given people plenty to talk about. For some people, the result will be the best thing that could have happened, and for others, it will be the worst possible outcome.
It is then not going to matter if these people live in the same country, as their experiences are going to be radically different. Even so, this is not to say that these are the only two experiences that people are having. On The Sidelines There are going to be plenty of people who couldn’t care less about what has taken place, and this is could come down to the fact that they didn’t vote. The whole thing could have been seen as waste of time. When someone has this outlook, they could say that while the faces may change, the consequences are always the same. It is then better for them to carry on as normal and not to get distracted by it all. It’s everywhere One way for them to get away from it all would be to move to the middle of nowhere and to leave their technology behind. Through doing this, it might allow them to finally get some peace and quiet. What this shows is that being around others is not the only way to hear about what other people think; this can take place through having some kind of device. If they were to go onto social media, for instance, there is a strong chance that their News Feed would be full of comments about the election. Effortless However, if someone is interested in what has taken place, it could be said that social media will be the perfect place for them to share their views. This can be done through writing something, or they can share a video or an article. It is going to take less effort for them to share another person’s work, and they might have the ability to say exactly what they are thinking. And once they have said something, it could only be a matter of seconds before their ‘friends’ start to respond. Hesitant At the same time, it could be said that this will only be a good place for them to share their views if they wanted Hillary to win. The reason for this is that their News feed is likely to be full of comments that talk about how bad Trump is. Therefore, if they were to talk about how pleased they are with the result, they could soon end up being put down or labelled in some way. A number of their ‘friends’ could start to see them differently, and they might even ‘unfriend’ them. Holding Back It might then be in their best interest to keep their views to themselves, but this could depend on a number of different factors. If they are self-employed, for example, they might believe that speaking their truth is less likely to have a negative effect on their livelihood. On the other hand, if they worked for someone else this could cause them to experience tension at work, and they may even lose their job. Yet, if one supported Hillary, there will be no reason for them to bite their tongue, so to speak. Support It is not even going to be necessary for someone to talk about how Hillary would be better, in order to be approved of by others; they can simply focus on how bad Trump is. This approach alone is likely to have a positive effect on how people perceive them. That won’t be as far as it goes though, as they can also end up being seen as a good person. It is then going to be similar to what would happen if they were to help a homeless person and then to talk about what happened online. In Shock As far as these people are concerned, trump could be seen as a deplorable human being, and so the people who voted for him must have something wrong with them. His supporters are then going to be put in one box, and it won’t matter why they supported Trump. This would be the same as saying that every sports fan is a troublemaker because a few fans cause trouble. If they took their time to find out why someone supported trump, it might allow them to expand their mind. The Reason When someone believes that Hillary is good and trump is bad, it can be a sign that they have been indoctrinated by the mainstream media. This source of information had no interest in giving people the facts about each candidate. But then if the people who were funding Hillary’s campaign are also behind the mainstream media, this is not much of a surprise. Expecting to be informed by this source, would be the same as expecting to buy a BMW at a Mercedes garage; it is simply not going to happen. Two Objectives The mainstream media did everything they could to try to convince people that Hillary was better than trump, and it could be said that they did a great job. Through doing this, they hoped that it would pave the way for her to become the next president. This part of their plan didn’t go too well, and this has lead to number of people to say that the mainstream media is starting to lose its power. Even so, it’s not as if they are dead in the water. Conclusion What is can show is that more and more people are beginning to look towards other sources of information, namely the alternative media. This doesn’t mean that everyone who voted for Trump followed this source though, as there are going to be people who simply turned away from the mainstream media and listened to what he had to say. Even so, it is clear that the mainstream media has their own agenda, and this is something that can’t be overlooked. When someone realises this, it will give them the chance to take a step back and to take control of what they allow into their mind.
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Now that the election is over, it has given people the chance to share their views on what has taken place. This could be a time when one is happy about how it is has gone, or they could feel let down.
Alternatively, they could wonder what all the fuss is about, and think about how life will go on either way. In this case, it is likely to show that they didn’t vote for anyone, or that they didn’t have to. On The Outside At the same, there is also the chance that they didn’t have the opportunity to vote. Perhaps they were in a position where they were unable to get involved, or they might even live in another country. However, even if one does live in another country, it doesn’t mean that they didn’t get involved in what was going on. Where they were in the world would then have been irrelevant, and it would have been as if they were an American citizen. Neutral When one has no interest in what has taken place, there can be no need for them to get caught up in what their friend’s are saying about what has taken place. They could simply listen to what they have to say and that could be as far as it goes. If they were to come across someone who voted for Hillary, they might say that there is nothing they can do about it, and that they need to carry on with their life. In their eyes, it is going to be a waste of time to focus on something that is out of their control. Democracy As although one was able to vote for Hillary, there was no guarantee that she would actually win the election. Therefore, one had very little control at this point, and now they have no control whosoever when it comes to doing anything about the result. It is then going to be a good idea for one to focus on what they can do, as opposed to something that is out of their control. After all, waiting for someone else to change the word is not the answer. Dependence It has been said that the people in power want people to see them as the answer to their problems, as this will make it easier to control them. When someone looks towards an external source to change their life, it can be normal for them feel helpless. The power that they have to change their life will be ignored, and it could be said that they will have regressed to a childlike state of mind. The government can then be seen as a mother or a father figure, and as someone who will make everything better. Enslaved Now, this is unlikely to allow someone to get very far in life, but what it will do is give other people a lot of power over them. Nevertheless, if someone is caught up in the belief that they will be taken care of, it is going to be a challenge for them to realise what is taking place. Another Outcome And if one was to come across someone who voted for trump, they could still have a similar response. In this case, they will be on the winning side, so to speak, but it’s not going to be as if their life will have suddenly improved. It is also not going to mean that all the problems in American will have disappeared either; it is going to take a while for things to change. As to what will change and what will stay the same, this will be revealed as time passes. Unhappy When one is not pleased with what has taken place, it is not going to be hard for them to find somewhere where they can share their views. The only thing they will need to do is to go on social media and to share their views with their ‘friends’. This can be a time where they will come across a lot of people who also wanted Hillary to win. One way of looking at this would be to say that her support shows that she was the best candidate; another way of looking at it would be to say that this shows how much control the mainstream media has over people. Letting It All Out But with that aside, this platform can give them the chance to share their views on what has taken place. They could talk about how shocked they are, and they could even lay into the people who voted for Trump. If they were to come across someone who supported Trump, it could then be a challenge for them to be civil. Instead, they could make a number of accusations, and they might even think about deleting them. Happy And while one could act in this way if they wanted Hillary to win, they could also have the same approach if they wanted Trump to win. It is then not going to be possible for them to accept that someone could see life differently. When something like this takes place, other people are going to be seen as being either ‘good’ or ‘bad’. The fact that life is rarely this black and white and that people are typically a composite of both will be put to one side. The Illusion When one wants to delete someone for supporting a different candidate; they could think about if they always agree with what their friends say. If they were to do this, they would probably soon see that there are lots of things that they don’t agree on. Thus, if they only want to spend time with people who have the same views as they do, they wouldn’t have any friends. Being friends with someone involves respecting their views and having moments when they can agree to disagree. Not the Same Still, it could be said that this is different, as someone would need to be mad to support Hillary/Trump. The best thing is then going to be for them to distance themselves from someone who is like this. This is one way of looking at it; another way would be for one to take the time to listen to why someone would have supported another candidate To do this, they would need to put their preconceived notions to one side and to have an open mind. Grow and Development Through doing this, it will give them the chance to gain a deeper understanding into why someone has a different outlook. This could then mean that they will no longer see them as being mad, and they could start to see that they have legitimate reasons. One is then using their ability to put themselves in another person’s shoes; instead of putting them down for seeing life differently. This can then stop them from losing a friend and they can expand their own mind. Conclusion What this shows is how easy it is for someone to act in a negative manner when they believe that they are right and other people are wrong. Through being convinced by what is taking place in their own mind, it can stop them from being able to take in new information. The sense of superiority that they experience through having a certain outlook can cause them to be completely misguided. This shows how important it is for someone to make sure that they don’t get too attached to what they believe.
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When someone has a social media account, there are a number of things that they can do. Even so, they might just prefer to use it to talk to their friends from time to time.
If this was to occur, it could be said that it would simply be another part of their life; it is not going to be something that they depend on. The people who they talk to online could then be people they actually know in the real world. One Side One way of looking at this would be to say that this is someone who would be on one side of the spectrum when it comes to how social media can be used. This could be a sign they were around for a number of years before it was invented, but this is not always going to be the case. Their age could be irrelevant, and it could come down to the need to experience life differently. Perhaps they value their privacy, and see social media as being somewhere where this will be lost. So Much More On the other hand, one could see social media as being an extension of themselves, and this will mean that they won’t just use it to talk to their friends. It could be seen as a platform where they are able to express their true-self. When it comes to who they are ‘friends’ with online, it could relate to people they know and to people they have never even met before. Their focus could be on having plenty of ‘friends’, and it won’t matter if they know them or not. Self-Expression But regardless of whether one is on the other side of this spectrum or somewhere in the middle, they can have the desire to express themselves online. This can occur through uploading images and sharing what has been taking place in their life. The pictures they do share can be edited to look right, and they can take their time to make sure that their status also sounds right. This is the kind of control that they could only dream about in the real world. Instant Attention And if they have the desire to receive attention, they are not exactly going to need to exert themselves. This could take place if they were to feel down or needed approval from others, for instance. One way for them to receive attention would be to share things that relate to their own life; another way would be to share things that have no connection whatsoever. A video that will make people laugh or ones that has animals in can do the job. Current Affairs Or, one could look into what is currently taking place in the world, and end up sharing something that is connected to it. Once again, this could be a video, article or they could share their views. This could be a time where they will speak their mind, or they could look into what other people are sharing. If they were to speak their mind, there is the chance that they won’t receive a lot of attention; in fact, they could end up being criticised for it. The Safe Option Yet, if they were to look at what other people are sharing, there is a greater chance that they will receive positive feedback from others. And although they will be behind a screen during this time, the responses they receive from others can have the same effect as they would if they were around real people. Therefore, if one has a strong need for approval, it could be normal for them to only share things that are likely to be seen as acceptable by their ‘friends’. Their need to speak their truth will then end up being ignored in order for them to be approved of by others. Out of Touch At the same time, one could be in a position where they are completely consumed by their need to receive approval. They are then not going to realise that they are not in touch with themselves. Their views can be defined by other people, and they won’t take the time to come to their own conclusions. In this case, one can be conditioned by others without even realising it; with this being the best way to keep someone enslaved. The Presidential Election And as it has recently been revealed that Donald Trump will be the next president of America, one could feel the need to share their views on this topic. This could be a time where they will talk about how bad the result is, and they could even blame the people who voted for him. It is then likely to mean that they will receive a lot of positive feedback for others; this can even cause them to be seen as a good person. One can then feel good about themselves and their image can be enhanced at the same time. Echo Chamber This could be something that takes place because one actually believes what they are saying, or it could just be seen as an easy way to receive approval. Either way, it is unlikely to have a negative effect on them. Through receiving this kind of feedback from others, it would be easy for them to conclude that they are good and the people who voted for Trump are bad or simply misinformed. Their mind can then end up being closed and it won’t be possible for them to take a deeper look into why he won. Black and White But if they were asked why they have this outlook, they may end up talking about what they heard from the mainstream media. This source of information is then going to be what has defined their outlook. However, if this source of information is controlled by the same people who funded Hillary’s campaign; why would they tell people the truth? Their agenda was to get Hillary into the white house; it wasn’t to give people the information they need to decide who the best candidate would be. Conclusion Ultimately, the mainstream media was nothing more than Hillary Clintons PR arm. If one believes that Hillary is good and trump is bad, it can show that they have been indoctrinated by the very source that is meant to inform them. What this shows is that the mainstream media can’t be trusted; they have failed the very people who they are supposed to serve.
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If someone needs food, they are generally going to go shopping; with this being somewhere where they will be able to get everything they need. In the same way, they can also look towards the mainstream media if they want to find out about what is taking place in the world.
It Just Happens Thus, if the same way that one could walk or drive to a shop in order to get food; they could simply turn on a TV on or read a paper to find out about what is going on around them. And if they have done this for most of their life, it is likely to take place without them needing to spend a lot of thinking about what they are going to do. The desire to eat something or the need to be informed about something could arise, and they could then end up taking action. There could also be moments when one is not even aware of this process and it could seem as though someone else is in control of them. Conserving Energy Yet, as responding in this way is going to be the best way for them to get food and to be informed; there is no reason for them to change their behaviour. After all, this is what the mind does to save energy. The energy that is saved through responding in this way can then be used in other ways. For example, if one was to spend a few minutes thinking about what to do whenever they need to do something like this it could easily obstruct the rest of their life. The Internet In recent years, it has become even easier for people to get the food they need and to be informed about the world. This is down to the fact that one can have food delivered to their door and follow the mainstream media by going online. Ergo, if one has a Smartphone, it is going to give them far more control than they would have had in the past. They can order the food they need online and it will soon end up being brought to their door. The News When it comes to finding out about the news, they will only need to go to a search engine or to go directly to their favourite news sources. Alternatively, they could just go onto their social media account. Through ‘Liking’ different news sources on social media, their News Feed will keep them up to date. As a result of this, one can stay up to date with their ‘friends’ and the world by using social media. Better Off Based on this, it could be said that there is no reason why someone should be in a position where they don’t have a good understanding of the world. But if they are, it is going to come down to their desire to be this way. This will then be similar to one having the chance to use a gym for free, but choosing not to use it. Their ancestors could only dream of having this much information available; the option just wasn’t there. A Choice It could then be said that it will come down to whether one has the desire to put their own life to one side from time to time and to look into what is going on around them. If they are only interested in the former, it is not going to matter what kinds of technology is at their fingertips. However, if they are interested in what is going on around them, there will be no shortage of information. This will then give them the ability to see what is actually taking place in the world and to make better decision in their own life. Alternative Media And along with what one can hear about from the mainstream media, they also have the opportunity to hear other points of view. It is then not going to be necessary for them to go along with what the mainstreams tells them. Through having so many sources to choose from, one can come to their own conclusions about what is true and what isn’t. Clearly this will take more work, but will be a way for them to have greater control over their own mind. The Priority In addition to this, it will be vital for them to be able to put their need to fit in to one side. As if they are unable to do this, they might even bother looking into other news sources, and it will then be normal for them to go along with what the mainstream media sells them. The reason for this is that if they were to talk about what they hear from other sources, it could set them up to be criticised by others. Their need to think for themselves and not to accept what they are told is likely to be met with resistance. One Purpose Therefore, although one is only doing what they can to find out what is actually taking place in the world, it can be as if they are doing something inherently wrong. The people around them are then going to overlook this fact and respond to them in a negative manner. At this point, one could turn their back on thei search for the truth and go back to listening to the mainstream media. This will stop them from being able to think for themselves, but it will make it a lot easier for them to be accepted by others. A Deeper Understanding The people behind the mainstream media are only too aware of how human nature works, and this is why they have so much control over people. As the need to belong and to fit in is so strong in most people, they are likely to realise that a lot of people won’t even question what they are told, or share their views if they are different. They are then not going to be worried if someone does go against the grain, as the people who they have indoctrinated will soon try to silence them. Without knowing it, these people will be doing everything they can to make sure that the mainstream media continues to control them. Conclusion What this shows is that it takes a lot of inner strength for someone to put their need to fit in to one side and to follow their desire to find the truth. This is not to say that it will be them against the world; what it comes down to is that the majority of people are likely to have a different priority.
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When it comes to who would make the best president, it is not uncommon for people to talk about Hillary Clinton. As far as they are concerned, she could be seen as someone who has what it takes to lead America.
This is the kind of response that people can have in the real world, and it can also take place online. There is then going to be no shortage of support when it comes to her campaign. The Reason If one of these people was asked why they have this outlook, it might not take very long for them to come up with an answer. In fact, they could come up with a number of reasons as to why she is the best option. They could say that she has the necessary experience, and go over what she has done to help people through the Clinton foundation, amongst other things. The thought of having the first female president might also be another factor. Convinced In their mind, there could be no doubt whosever that she is the right person for the job. And as there are going to be plenty of people who have the same outlook, this could be seen as a sign that they are right. But if they need more support, they will only need to pick up a paper or to go online. It is then not as if they are going to be the one against the many, and this will make it easier for them to stand their ground. Another Scenario Alternatively, someone could say that it is obvious that Hillary is the best candidate, and they might find it strange that they even need to say this. There is then going to be no reason for them to give any reasons as to why this is. As a result of this, they could talk about how bad Trump is, and this could be as far as it will go. It is then not going to be a surprise for them to say that the worst thing that could happen would be for Trump to become the next president of America. Evidence If they were asked to prove why Trump is so bad, they could say that everyone knows how bad he is. And once again, there will be no need for them to go into why they have this outlook. Or if they do, they could talk about what he has said about women, and how he avoided paying tax. This could also be a time where they say that he is racism, islamophobic and/or sexist, for instance. The Truth Therefore, how these people see each candidate is going to be seen as a reflection of what they are like. And if someone was to have a different view of these two candidates, they could be seen as the ones who don’t know what they are talking about. It is then going to be vital for them to learn about what these two candidates are really like, and they could be more than happy to inform them. Alternatively, they could tell them to go online and to find out for themselves. One Source When it comes to why someone would believe that Hillary is the best candidate, there is a strong chance that it’s because they follow the mainstream media. The way they perceive her will be the result of what this source has told them about her. In the same way, what they believe about Trump will also be the result of what this source of information has told them about him. This source could be seen as something that exists to inform people about the world. A Different Way Yet, even if someone doesn’t pay attention to this source of information, it doesn’t mean that they won’t be defined by it. The people that they spend most of their time with could pay attention to it, and so they will be influenced by the mainstream media in an indirect way. This shows how much power the media has over people, and that it won’t matter if one is completely oblivious to what they are talking about. Even so, if the media is only there to inform people, this is not going to be a problem. A Hidden Agenda However, what if this is not why the mainstream media exists; What if their sole purpose is to indoctrinate people? And what if the people behind the mainstream media are also the ones who are supporting Hillary Clinton? It is then going to be in their best interest to make Hillary look like the best Candidate, and to make Trump look like the worst. Due to this, it is going to be irrelevant as to who would actually be the person person to lead America; what matters is doing everything they can to get Hillary into the white house. Media Blackout If someone was to take a step back from the mainstream media and allowed themselves to look into other news sources, they might end up being horrified by what they see. This may be a time where they will begin to realise that Hillary makes Trump look like a saint. This is not to say they will start to believe that he would be the perfect president; what it comes down to is that they could see that they have to make him look bad in order to cover up her misdeeds. Two Extremes After looking over some of the things that Hillary has been involved in, one might begin to wonder if she can be trusted. It could occur to them that her foundation is simply a way for her to serve her own interests. It could be clear that she is not loyal to the American people; her main purpose is to please the globalists. With her plan to have open borders being another way to destroy the very country that she is supposed to represent. Conclusion These are just a few of the things that the mainstream media is unwilling to cover, and this is understandable. If they were to reveal what Hillary is really like, she wouldn’t stand a change. What this shows is how important it is for someone to think for themselves, and not to allow their mind to be controlled. This will take more energy, but it will be a lot easier for them to see what is actually taking place.
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While one can be in a position where they take care themselves, they can also end up doing the complete opposite. When this happens, one is not going to treat themselves with respect, and they could even go out of their way to harm themselves.
If someone was to take the time to observe their behaviour, they might wonder what is going on. It could be hard for them to understand why they would treat themselves in this way. The Only Person When one is an adult, it is going to be up to them to make sure that their needs are met and that they don’t allow anyone to harm them. This is not going to be something that anyone else can do for them. Therefore, if one is unable to do this, it is going to be normal for them to suffer in one way or another. Now, this is not to say that other people can’t play a part here; what it comes down to is that one is no longer a child. A Different Focus These kinds of people could be there from time to time to remind one to make sure that they treat themselves with respect. They may even go one step father and end up doing things for them. But as they will have their own needs to deal with, it is not going to be possible for them to behave like a parent would. Also, even if one did have people like this in their life, it doesn’t mean that they would be able to get through to them. A Momentary Effect As a result of this, one could have moments where their life improves but if these people were not around, they would soon go back to how they were. It can then be similar to having one good meal a week, as opposed to eating right every day. It could be said that this is going to be better than not eating anything, but it won’t be the ideal scenario to be in. Yet, if one resists the support that people offer them, it is not going to matter what these people try to do to help them. One Outcome Due to how one responds to the help that is offered, it can result in a lot of people walking away from them. Or, if they don’t walk away because of this, they could do so to protect themselves. These people could find that it is not good for them to be around them, and they will be putting their needs first by cutting their ties. Along with this, one could have people around them who experience life the same way. Like Attracts Like Nevertheless, if one treats themselves so badly, it could be said that it is not going to be a surprise for them to be around people like this. In fact, being around these kinds of people could be what feels comfortable. And even though these people are destructive, it might not even stand out to them, and this is going to come down to how they experience life. Thus, it would be waste of time for people to just tell them to spend time with people who are healthy. One Outcome What this shows is that when one doesn’t respect themselves, they can end up spending time with people who are just as harmful. It could even appear as though these people are even more destructive than they are. This could be the case, or it could mean that one has the tendency to cover up what they do to themselves. For example, although could come across as someone who doesn’t treat themselves well, they could also cover this up. A Closer Look If someone was able to tune into what is taking place in one’s mind, they could be in for a shock. They could soon find out that one is their own worst enemy, and could be hard for them to handle what is going on. In the majority of cases though, someone will only need to look at one’s behaviour to realise that they are not their own best friend. In addition to what their relationships are like, there will be the effect this has on their career. Two Extremes On one hand, one could have a job that they don’t enjoy, or they might only get so far in this area of their life. And on the other hand, they could be a workaholic who works themselves into the ground. When it comes to the former, it shows that they don’t allow themselves to make progress, and when to come to the latter; it is not going to be possible for them to appreciate what they do achieve. Either way, as they are punishing themselves, their life is not going to be very enjoyable. Emotional Problems And as they find it hard to talk to themselves in a positive and nurturing manner, it can be a challenge for them to feel good about themselves. There could be moments when they feel on top of the world, and moments when they hit rock bottom. If their mood does fluctuate in this way, it could set them up to use alcoholic, drugs, or even sex to regulate how they feel. In some cases, one might even physically harm themselves; this might involve cutting certain parts of their body, or they could behave in ways that are likely to cause them harm. A Deeper Look When it comes to why someone would experience life in this way, there is the chance that their childhood years played a part. This could have been a time when they were not given the care that they need in order to grow and develop. Instead, this could have been a time when they were abused and/or neglected. Through being treated in this way, they would have come to see themselves as being worthless, and how they were treated would have laid the foundations for how they would treat themselves. Awareness As this is likely to have been something that took place over number of years, it is unlikely to be something that will change overnight. But though having the desire to move forward and the right support, one can gradually begin to value themselves. This support can be provided by a therapist.
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What is clear is that human beings don’t live forever; there comes a point in everyone’s life when their time will come to an end. When it comes to when this will be, it can depend on a number of different factors.
Due to this, it is often said that life is too short to waste time; each moment needs to be seized. Through taking this approach, one will be making the most of the life that they have been given. A Waste If one doesn’t experience life in this way, they could feel as though they are missing out. As a result of this, not only could they end up feeling angry; they could also feel guilty. It is then going to be a challenge for them to standstill, and they might even find it hard to sleep. Their life is not going to be something they have to endure; it is going to be something that they are here to enjoy. Driven One is then going to be used to feeling motivated, and this will give them the energy that they need to achieve things. In general, they won’t find it hard to get out of bed; they will have the need to get things moving. This could mean that other people see them as someone who grabs life by the horns, so to speak. And based on how they approach life, it is likely to have a passive effect on how these people experience life. Relationships Their intimate relationships could also be infused with this same energy, and they are unlikely to want to have someone in their life who has a different approach. The people they are intimate with are then going to add to what they already bring to the table. Their upbeat nature could also make it easier for them to move on after a break up; they won’t want to go over the experiences they shared. One could believe that they will only be wasting their time if they wallow in the past. A Rare Occurrence To experience life in this way could sound like a dream to most people, and this is because they can find it hard to relate to. They might find it hard to remember when they last experienced life in this way. And while someone might believe that it is possible to experience life in this way, they could say that this is not how life works. As far as they are concerned, life could be something that has to be endured, as opposed to enjoyed. In The middle Or, they may say that this is how they experience life at certain times, but that’s as far as it goes. It is then not going to matter how short life is, as they will have moments when the amount of time they have on this earth becomes irrelevant. Yet, regardless of whether one rarely has moments like this or whether they have them from time to time, they will know what it is like to get stuck in the past. When this happens, it won’t matter what is going on in the present moment. Attention Their point of focus will be on something that took place a few days ago, or it might have even been a number of years ago. This will make it a lot harder for them to make the most of the present moment. There is the chance that this is something that will only affect them during certain times, or it could practically bring their life to a standstill. Either way, it is going to stop them from being able to move forward in life. One Area When it only affects them at certain times, it could be something that stops them from being able to start a new relationship, for instance. This area of their life is then going to be far from fulfilling, and they are likely to experience a lot of pain. The pain that they experience in this a part of their life could cause them to work even harder in their career. Therefore, although one area of their life will be ignored, another area won’t be. Feedback If one was to talk to their friends and/or family about what they are going through, they could tell them that they need to let go of the past. This could be something that they are only too aware of, or it might not have occurred to them before. Along with this, they could say that they need to do this since life is too short to hold onto what happened. Through being told this, it might not be long until one is able to move on with their life, and to put the past behind them. A Conscious Choice Through deciding it was time to move on, one would have gradually been able to let go of the past. It could then be said that one used their will power to change their life, and this can show that one doesn’t need to be controlled by their mind. However, while the above can take place, it doesn’t mean that it is always this simple. Instead, one could find that even though they realise life is short, it doesn’t mean that they are able to just let go of the past. Pressure One could then find that they start to feel bad about themselves, as they should be able to let go. There is then going to be the pain they are experiencing through being caught up in the past, and the pain that is created through not being able to use their will power to move on. Clearly, one is going through enough as it is without punishing themselves for being in this position. The trouble with the willpower approach is that letting go is not always about the mind; there can be times when it is about what is going on in the body. Awareness If it relates to what is taking place in their body, it might be necessary for them to put their willpower to one side. As if they are carrying an emotional build-up that needs to be processed, they will need to face how they feel. When comes to letting go of what is taking place in their body, they may need to work with a therapist.
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There can be moments when someone is more irritable than others, and this can make it hard to be around them. This could mean that other people are likely to get into an argument with them, or they could simply end up being verbally attacked.
Having said that, it might not even be this extreme, and other people could just feel drained in their presence. One could find fault in more or less everything they lay their eyes upon, and it will be clear that they are not happy. Now and Then However, if they only come across in this way from time to time, it might not have a negative effect on their relationships. Other people could have the tendency to keep their distance when they act in this manner. These people could have moments when they ask them about what has upset them, and this could lead to a positive outcome. Through being asked this, one could open up about what caused them to be this way. Dismissed This could then allow one to settle down, and this might then stop someone from needing to take a step back from them. At the same time, this approach might not work; in fact, it could make them ever worse. What this could then show is that one is not aware of why they are experiencing life in this way, and this sets them up to be reactive. One is then not in control of their emotions; their emotions are in control of them. Loss of Control This can be seen as an example of what can happen when something in external world has had an effect on their inner world. It is then not possible for one to function as they usually would. For example, if one was walking down a road and something fell on their head, it is going to cause them to experience pain. In this case, not only can they experience a strong emotional reaction; they can also be affected physically. Out of Their Control If this was to happen, it wouldn’t be usual for one to see themselves being unlucky, and this is because this was largely out of their control. Of course, they could have walked another way, but they had no reason to. And when it comes to being angry or annoyed as a result of what has happened externally, one could believe that they are not playing a part in what is going on for them. It can then be as if their reaction is completely normal. Another Experience Nevertheless, this is just one of the ways in which someone can experience life, and there are a number of other experiences that they can have. There is still the chance that they have the inclination to be irritable, or this might not be the case. Along with this, it might not matter if they are around others or if they are in their own company. The reason for this is that one can simply go online, and this can allow them to be exposed to all kinds of things. Direct or Indirect During their time online, one could read about something that someone else has said, and this could cause them to experience a strong reaction. The same thing could also occur if they were talking to someone. And when this happens online, it will be a lot easier for them to get away from what is having an effect on them. As if this was to take place offline, it might not be possible for them to get away. Emotional Experience When they experience a strong emotional reaction, they could end up feeling extremely angry. Alternatively, they could feel extremely vulnerable, and as though they are about to be attacked. Or, they could end up being overwhelmed with anxiety, and it could then seem as though they are about to die. It might then be more accurate to say that it is more of a survival response than an emotional response. An Overreaction One way of looking at this would be to say that one’s reaction don’t match up with what takes place. What this can show is that the reason they are behaving in this way is not due to what is taking place externally. But if one is not aware of what is taking place, it can set them up to try to control their environment. On their own, they are not going to have lot of influence; but this could soon change if they were to join forces with people who are in a similar position. One Purpose One could then take it upon themselves to define what other people can or can’t say, and this is naturally going to have effect on freedom of speech. It can create an environment where people are unable to share their views. Walking on egg shells can then become the norm, and society as a whole can begin to regress. The priority can then be to make sure that people are not triggered (or offended), as opposed to anything else. Stepping Back When this happens, it is clearly going to make it much harder for other people to function. The majority are then going to have to suffer as a result of what the minority are going through. Now, this is not to say that what these people are going through needs to be overlooked; what it comes down to is that a balanced approach needs to be taken. There can be times when it might be necessary to let people know when someone could trigger them, and at other times it might not be. Conclusion It will also be vital for people to be encouraged to look into why they experience life in this way, as this can give them the chance to change their life and allow other people to express their views. Perhaps one is carrying trauma, or maybe they don’t have the ability to regulate their emotions. If one can relate to this, it might be a good idea for them to work with a therapist; this can give them the opportunity to change how they respond to life.
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When something works, there is generally going to be no reason for someone to take a closer look at it. One example of this is that when one has a car that works, they won’t need to take a look under the bonnet, for instance.
Yet, this would change if their car was to no longer run as it used to, and it would then be necessary for them to head down to a garage. Or, if they can’t start their car, they may need to have it picked up. Relationships Similarity, if one’s relationships are going fine, there is going to be no reason for them to look for information on how to improve them. The connections that they have with others are going to be fulfilling, and this will allow them to use their energy in other ways. But if this wasn’t the case, it would essential for them to take a step back from their life and to look for answers. As if they were to carry on doing the same thing, their life is unlikely to improve. Down Hill In fact, there is a strong chance that it would end up getting even worse, and this could cause them to think about what their life would be like if they had taken action. There can then be the pain they are experiencing from having unfulfilling relationships, and the additional pain that is created trough not taking the time to do anything about it. Still, if one has this experience, it can show that they believe they have the ability to do something about what is taking place. The alternative might be for them to see themselves as being a victim, and this will mean that they won’t believe there is anything they can do about their circumstances. The Ideal When one is able to look for guidance as soon as they realise there is a problem, it will stop them from having to go through all this. This will show that one doesn’t feel helpless, and that they believe they have what is takes to change their life. It could be said that this shows that while it is the norm for people to do something about their car if it is not working, the same can’t be said for relationships. Instead, it can be normal for them to tolerate what is taking place. Completely Different One way of looking at this would be to say that this is due to the kind of conditioning that people receive throughout their life. As while the average person is unlikely to believe that they should put up with a car that doesn’t work, the same can’t be said when it comes to relationships that don’t work. Regardless of what someone’s relationships are like, they can simply accept what is taking place. Or, if this is not the case, it could be something that they just go along with. Part of Life What this can come down to is no matter what one’s relationships are like; they can be in position where they have adjusted to them. This can be due to the amount of time that they have experienced life in this way. And when it comes to what one’s relationships are like, it is highly likely that their childhood had a big effect. As a result of this, there is the chance that their relationships have been this way for a number of years. Two Experiences Now, if one’s relationship are fulfilling, it won’t matter if they have become accustomed to experiencing life in this way. This part of their life can be extremely rewarding, and they won’t want this to change. But if one’s relationships are not fulfilling and this is what feels comfortable, it will be important for this to change. This part of their life is likely to have a negative effect on their rest of their life, and they will need to do whatever they can to change it. Familiar The trouble with having relationship that are not very fulfilling, is that this is what can feel comfortable. On one level, one can have the desire to change their life, but on a deeper level, another part of them can have the desire for it to stay the same. This inner resistance can then stop them from taking action, and one can then feel as though something within them is holding them back. Nevertheless, embracing this inner conflict will be far better than simply putting up with relationships that are not fulfilling. The Next Step Once they are able to acknowledge what is taking place within them, it will give them the chance to do something about it. In the short-term this is likely to be painful, but it will save them a lot of pain in the long-term. As for what one needs to do to improve their relationships, it can all depend on what they are like. If, for example, they have the tendency to end up with people who they are not attracted to, it could be a sign that they need to work on their self-esteem. Another Dynamic Through changing how they see themselves, it could only be a matter of time before they are able to meet someone who they actually want to be with. On the other hand, if one is used to being with people who are abusive, it might not be this simple. It might be hard for them to comprehend why they would end up with people who are like this. Even so, this may begin to change if they were to take the time to reflect on their early years. Childhood Development During their formative years, they may have been brought up by someone who abused them in some way. And while being treated in this way it would have caused them to experience a lot of pain, it would have ended up being what feels comfortable. The years would then have passed and even though what took place is in the past, it is still defining their life. Looking into the past can then allow them to become aware of why their life is the way it is. Awareness The next step will be for them to get the right assistance, and this is something that can be provided by a therapist. This can be a time where they will need to look into what is taking place in their mind and their body.
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It is not uncommon to hear people talk about how bad Donald Trump is, and they could have a number of different reasons as to why they have come to this conclusion. In fact, they might not even feel the need to go into why they have this outlook.
It’s Obvious As far as they are concerned, it could be something that is perfectly clear; one could then find it strange if someone has a different perspective. The evidence is there, and if someone can’t see this, they must have something wrong with them Or, if this is not the case, it could be seen a sign that they are not aware of the kinds of things that he has done. Therefore, if they were to have the same understanding as them, it would enable them to come to the same conclusion. The Source When one perceives trump in this way, it can be the result of what they have heard about from the mainstream media. Their mind would then have gradually been influenced by what they have seen on TV, read in the paper, heard on the radio and read about online. But while they are paying attention to this source when it comes to what Trump is like, it doesn’t mean that this is anything new. There is a strong chance that this is has taken place for most of their life. Normal Ergo, in the same way that one would go to a supermarket if they wanted to buy food; they can look towards the mainstream media to be informed about the world. This source of information is going to have a big effect on how they view the world. And as this is likely to be a relationship that has developed over a number of years, one can feel completely comfortable with letting down their guard. There can then be no reason for them to question what they hear. One Purpose Yet, if this source is simply there to inform people, there is going to be no reason for one to cast a critical eye over what they are exposed to. Also, one could be too busy to do their own research, and so they can be more than happy to rely on this source. And as a presidential election will soon take place, it is to be expected that the mainstream media would want to talk about the candidates. After all, this will allow people to decide who the best person to vote for is. A Balanced Approach If they were not given the opportunity to find out about each candidate, it wouldn’t be possible for them to make the right decision. Instead, they could end up going for the wrong person, and this could lead to all kinds of problems down the line. Fortunately, the mainstream media exists to make sure that this doesn’t happen, and it could then be said that this is the only purpose they have. When this doesn’t take place, not only will they not being doing their job; they will also be letting their fellow human beings down. Two Options And although there are more than two candidates to choose from, it is clear that only Donald Trump or Hillary Clinton can win the election. Due to this, the mainstream media has a lot to say about these two people. When it comes to what they are like, it has been said that Hillary is a better candidate than Trump. This partly comes down to the fact that he has said offensive things about women, and he wants to build a wall, amongst other things. A New Era On the other hand, Hillary is generally seen as someone who has nothing to hide, and she has helped a lot of people through her foundation, for instance. Not only this, she would also be the first female president. Through the experience she has in politics and her interest in helping others, she can be seen as the best option. Trump could be seen as a liability, and as someone who shouldn’t be given that much power. Two Extremes Hillary is then someone who you would be happy to be friends with, but Trump is someone who you wouldn’t want to go anywhere near. The former doesn’t have a checkered background and she comes across well, the latter does have one and he doesn’t come across as well. Based on this, any sane human being is going to vote for Hillary Clinton, and if someone votes for Trump, they must have problems. Said another way, the people who are intelligent are the ones who support Hillary. The Big Illusion However, if someone was to take a step back from the mainstream media and to look into other news sources, they might begin to see that it is not this black and white. For one thing, they might start to see that while Trump has said some bad things, Hillary has done bad things. It could then be said that the mainstream media has to make Trump look like the worst candidate to make sure that people don’t realise how Corrupt Hillary is. Along with this, this new source doesn’t exist to inform people; it exists to control people. The Same Money As a result of this, the people who are behind the mainstream media are also behind Hillary Clinton. These people don’t care about America; they are only concerned with their own agenda. Now, this is not to say that Donald Trump is therefore perfect, as this is clearly not the case. But while Hillary is there to please the globalists behind the scenes, it appears as though Trump is there to represent the American people. Conclusion As the mainstream media is owned by the same people who support Hillary, it is not much of a surprise to hear that they will do everything they can to make sure that Trump doesn’t win. It is then going to be in one’s best interest to look to other sources of information in order to decide who the best candidate is.
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